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My boyfriend cheated on me

Saturday, August 22, 2015 10:39 AM by Guest Rating: +2|-6

I had been with my bf for three months but we met online. When we met in person we were passionate kissing with tongue and everything. I didn't get suspicious until he told me to add him on Facebook. On his page he had his friends post things like "When you're gf goes through your phone and you have a mini heart attack afraid of what you might find." Then there was this girl she wrote on his timeline often and he was always eager to reply. I admit I was jealous so I deleted him off my Facebook even though we were still dating. I noticed however that we had mutual friends he and my sister and one of my best friends were friends on Facebook. I told my sister if she knew that my bf and her were friends on Facebook. She told me he had added her before we were even dating and he even messaged her. He sent her all these messages about how pretty she was and all this shit he still told me. The same things he told me before we even dated he told her. I looked at the date and he messaged her the same day we had met for the first time. I always knew he was cheating but I couldn't believe it. When we were together I'd grab his phone and he would snatch it before I could look through anything. I was stupid for still being with him even though I was sure he was being unfaithful. He would tell me that how did he know I wasn't cheating but I told him He could always go through my phone but he'd say I probably deleted everything. We eventually broke up but he would message me and tell me he missed me. He would tell me he loved me. He didn't tell me he had a gf tho I found out when he changed his Facebook profile picture to one of him and her. Then he'd message me on Facebook. He'd tell me I was important and when I found a new bf he tried to convince me to leave my new bf. My new bf is a few years older and so my ex bf said since my bf is oldee he might just be using me and playing with me. I told him to stop calling me and messaging me. He eventually did especially after I deactivated my Facebook. The funny thing is after I erased my Facebook he stopped putting pictures of him and his new gf as his profile picture. I feel bad for his gf I wonder if she knew he'd call me and message me. I wanted to tell her but what if hes changing for her. He puts her on his Facebook and all he never did that with me. Idk maybe it's too late to tell her now.....

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Thursday, September 29, 2016 6:06 PM
TheBestAdvice

No need to warn her about things that might be. If he was still after you now that would be different. The real question is have you learned your lesson, or do you want to repeat it again.  And what lesson did you learn?

 

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