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Saturday, June 25, 2016 9:52 AM by Guest Rating: +5|-9

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now. We've known each other for about 20 years. I've caught him lying to me, sending nudes to his exes, texting, flirting with new and familiar women, answering sex ads on Craigslist and backpage, setting up dating accounts complete with pictures of his penis. He even took my car to go "chill with a friend." He says he never had sex with anyone, but I don't know if I believe him. Anyway, I've only been with a handful of men sexually and I've been talking to this young, ambitious, very handsome man. He gives me that exciting feeling whenever we talk. We have started flirting and I think I want to have sex, but I don't know if I could live with the guilt of betraying a friend, even though my friend has done horrible things to our relationship. While I don't trust him, I still love my boyfriend but I want to satisfy my curiosity. I'm nervous about what cheating will do to my conscience, I like to think I'm a good person but I've dealt with a lot and I feel I deserve a little selfishness. 

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Saturday, June 25, 2016 1:19 PM
Bravo

I think you should take a step back and look at the relationship this way: 

Your guy views your relationship like it's an open relationship, where he can do whatever he wants on the side. If you've never said this is ok, then he's violated your relationship.

Now you're saying you want to engage in the same behavior, but might be justified because he did it first. Again, did you define your relationship as 'open'? 

Because if neither of you said it was fine, then it's just a morbid circle of cheating and betrayal, and everything would be resolved if you ended the relationship, and just found a new guy when you're ready, guilt-free, revenge-free. 

Cleanse your palate. 

 
Saturday, June 25, 2016 2:27 PM
Original Poster0

I've asked him if he wants an open relationship, I'm fine with that. We've been friends for so long that it really wouldn't bother me IF he didn't mind me doing the same things. He doesn't want me to even playfully flirt with other men, but he feels he can go do whatever he wants as long as I never find out. He said he's changed, but I don't know if I should believe him cause he says the same shit every time he gets caught. Idk. Thanks for commenting, it was helpful

 
Saturday, June 25, 2016 2:40 PM
Guest

Why don't you guys take a break for awhile. I don't know your ages or anything but it sounds like a young couple story. Go out and get some fresh air. 2ndly if you cheat maybe just MAYBE it will open his eyes. Cheating on a man that cheats a lot of times let's the man know your not playing games. And oh by the way women can play this game just as well as men. And after he catches you show absolutely NO remorse. Let your boyfriend know your not playing games with him anymore 

 
Saturday, June 25, 2016 5:54 PM
Original Poster0

We are 33. I told him he's immature as fuck, like who has these problems at our age. I told him he needs to be with someone in who's in her early 20s, because this is just stupid as hell. I've tried to leave but he says he loves me and he's changing. I feel like a moron as I type this. Thanks for the comment

 
Saturday, June 25, 2016 6:03 PM
Guest

Yea you need to leave. You deserve better. Your 2 old for this. If he wants to be a kid then let him. Your grown

 
Saturday, June 25, 2016 6:46 PM
mmm

DON't DO SOMETHING That you DON'T WANT HAPPEN TO YOU..

 

Dont Cheat.Dont Go this way..

Just Tell your BoyFriend, you done with him, Break your relationship with him,THEN have a week with yourself alone,think about exboyfriend,and this new handsom guy,think, and then PICK the one that give you the Best Feeling (i'm not saying "sex, im saying that Feeling that gives you Motivation to be happy,and live like a queen)

 

please,dont cheat,I hate Cheaters... dont do something that you dont deserve to yourself... you are a good person,be same,Don't CHANGE..

and take this note: Liars always say their lies with straight face, and they always complain about that: "why you don't trust me,im always saying truth to you!!"

 

have a good life,you deserve Best

 

 
Saturday, June 25, 2016 11:41 PM
Guest

once you allow yourself to open that emotional door and give yourself permission(in this case curiosityand/or payback) you find other excuses easier to find.. ask yourself..is that the person you want to be,and is that baggage something that will help or hinder your current and possible future relationships.. your honor is all you truly can own. dont be so quick to throw that away

 
Monday, June 27, 2016 4:48 AM
Guest

Go out and fuck. It's only a fuck 

 
Monday, June 27, 2016 7:49 AM
Mr2Kinky

Go get that dick girl... All women deserve to be fully satisfied sexually even if it means cheating. 

 
Monday, June 27, 2016 11:12 AM
Guest

You'll just regret it. Go ahead and do it, and then you'll complain later asking yourself why you did it.

If you want things to be better, don't stoop down to be a person you don't like. If you don't like your boyfriend for what he's done, then if you do it, you'll just end up not liking yourself. It's that simple.

 
Sunday, July 24, 2016 8:27 PM
Original Poster0

Well, I did it. Twice. I don't regret it. This man was everything, I mean EVERYTHING my boyfriend is not. He's big and tall... he's strong, dominant and sure of himself without being cocky about it. I told him I needed to be friends before we fucked, and he gave me exactly what I needed. No, we aren't trying to be together, and we have decided not to have sex any more, but this man was incredible. We keep in touch often, and just talk about normal, every day things that have nothing to do with sex. I'm happy, and committing this act of selfishness gave me the push I needed to leave my boyfriend.

 

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