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My husband cheated on me

Friday, May 6, 2016 1:01 PM by Guest Rating: +7|-3

So I recently shared my story under"Forgivness"I actually left out very important parts of the story. I believe it wouldn't be fair for me to leave this out. before my husband and friend started texting eachother trying to have sex behind my back.we all engaged in one unplanned drunken foursome. I, my husband, my friend and her husband. It was not planned but I am attracted to woman and it started off as me and her flirting. After too long she started teasing me and taking her clothes off  and we started making out.We were all in one room. Before too long we both were on the bed. Then her husband joined first soo. my husband did too. I was only interested in making out with a woman so when her husband stuck his stuff in me i stopped. I told everyone I wasn't comfortable. We were still pretty drunk so we all just went to our spouses to finish. So now that you have that. can I seriouly be mad that they were sneaking behind my back. I mean I am mad because i wouldn't sneak behind his back. But I feel like I was immature and decided to have a foursome and open up curiosity.I don't know if anyone has experienced a aftermath of swinging..even ine night. but i have and it has not been fun. I feel like We all created this issue.

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Saturday, May 7, 2016 3:39 AM
Guest

Lol yea lady you have definitely opened a door. You have shown your husband a side of you he didn't know. And oh the other lady's husband at least got to feel you. He did go on so technically you cheated in front of your husband 

 
Saturday, May 7, 2016 5:09 AM
Guest

Let's see, her husband stuck his junk in you, did your husband get to stick his junk in her.  Not thinking he did because you stopped everything at that point.  Technically, you cheated on your husband with a man and a woman and he had to watch.  Deal with it, you screwed up and now you are making it out to be that he was the problem.  Looks like you were the problem from the start and are now trying to blame the problem on him.  Get help fast or your marriage is over.

 
Sunday, May 8, 2016 9:44 PM
Guest

i think your probably just jealous cuz your friend prefers to go behind your back and fuck your man without you in it. you big dumb ass you should have thought about wat that chic enjoys better dick or pussy. 

 
Wednesday, May 11, 2016 10:36 AM
Guest

It all comes down to spousal consent, which is so important in cases like this. You were wronged. Period. Don't listen to these people saying you opened doors yada yada.

When the almost foursome happened, it happened with consenting spouses. (What I find dubious is her husband just deciding to stick it in you without consent (?) that's rape (?)) (Foursomes are supposed to be discussed properly in advance - trust me the regrets are astronomical if they aren't well planned)

I don't think people should hold you kissing your friend against you, clearly the men were all for it. It would have been a different matter if your husband had expressed anger at your behaviour. (Was this discussed?)

Back to the topic, let's be clear on one thing when your spouse decides to go fuck any woman without your consent - it's cheating and it's cruel.

You don't have to forgive him for shit and you should tell your friend to go take a fucking hike.

 
Thursday, July 14, 2016 1:22 AM
ALF

You are a real piece of work lady.  You start making out with a woman, in front of your husband (and nowhere do you say he consented to it), and you call HIM the cheater.  Did your friend's husband give his consent?  I hear a resounding "NO" coming on.  You just wanted to get your freak on with your friend, and freaked out when the husbands tried to join in.  Well, it's all on the table now.  You showed your husband you're going to get down whenever you want to, and now he's just trying to follow suite.  Your actions are called implied consent.  You're both trying to get with the same person, so it can't be all that bad.

And my advice to your husband:  Your wife opened the door dude, so let your freak flag fly.  And if she gives you any lip about it, just dial 1-900-CHOKE-THAT-HOE.

 
Wednesday, August 24, 2016 7:29 AM
Guest

The situation here is much murkier than it would be if this hadn't happened. I think once the door to as opened, you have to just accept whatever happened as a consequence of the initial situation. You had no problems going for it to try to get what you wanted. I think your hubby was entitled to try to do the same thing. 

 

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