Wednesday, May 25, 2016 12:59 PM by Guest
So me and my wife have been married for 10 years she's 36 I'm 38 and we have two beautiful kids and every thing is going great. My wife is the perfect woman she always tells me she loves me she's a great mom very supportive and from I think I'm a good husband. So one day I come home from work the kids are still at school and my wife calls me into the kitchen to talk. I ask her what's wrong she tells me she's been having an affair. She's been seeing this guy from her job and she explains to me that she's been seeing him because I'm not good enough in the bed room for her and she gives me the sob story of I'm so sorry and all that and I scream at her. I don't know what it was but I just go ballistic on saying " why would you do this" " your a horrible wife" and she starts crying. So I leave the house and spend the night at my brothers. The next morning I tell all our friends and family about the affair and I go back home telling my wife I want a divorce. She keep pleading with me for a second chance and I ignore her. I wasn't thinking about our kids or if she felt sorry I just ignore her.But to make it worse her parents, siblings, and friends are treating her like that as well. So we get the divorce I move out of the house we share coustady of the kids and I'm wonder if I should have treated her like that or if I should go find another woman or if I'll ever be happy again. I just feel like my life's gon to shit in a hell storm, I just want to know if there's any hope for me. Any advice?