Friday, August 19, 2016 6:44 AM by Jeremy
A week before my 30th anniversary, my wife says to me "do you want to sleep with someone else"
I res[pond , why the Q? . She then tells me she has slept with someone 4 yrs previously. i'm shocked, love her loads. We talk , we make love and fall asleep. Next morning she tells me she went away to New York with him where she attended aconference. Now I'm totally shocked. She says since their first fling, he kept on pestering her and she gave in. He has been harassing her and she wants me to contact him. I do and he promises to stay away. However now I'm totally shattered by this. i get hold of her phone and discover that she has slept with him , always away at conferences over the last four years . First she tells me that there was another trip to New York, then when i mention Toulose , paris , she gets quite annoyed and says to me to move on. the affair is over. she loves me and it was a mistake. I then find out that in 2014 , when I went into hospital to have aprocedure, she had a conference in London, she slept with him there as well. . Now I'm upset because it has been quite a number of times. She actually brought him to dinner two years ago because he was visiting his sons ( He lives 3 hours away) and at a charity dinner, she invited him to sit with our family. Now would someone who is being harassed and didnt really like him , bring this person into contact with her family. I'm now really interested in what her emotional attraction was to him and where they slept together. Am I being unreasonable. She says she loves me , we make great love - but i feel theiris a lack of intimacy