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Wasted 15 years

My wife cheated on me

Thursday, September 8, 2016 3:40 AM by Max Rating: +25|-16

I met the woman of my life when i was 26. After a week we decided to live together. It went good (very good) for years, one day we moved to italy, i was working the whole day, she was taking care of our villa in the hills, a wonderful place with a breath taking view on the sea.

She felt alone and she started an innocent friendship with our neighbour. The innocence lasted a week  or two, a month later she got pregnant. We did not knew if it was mine or his, but after a long talk we had one night, we decided to give a second chance to our love: we went back home, and i decided to be the father of the child that was coming, no matter what. I had hope that it was mine, the day of his birth i had to see it was not. He was the copy of my ex neighbour. I put myself trough a real difficult time, but at the end i could leave the sadness behind me and fully love my son. 

We've been a happy family for years, one day i received the visit of a colleague who needed to tell me a story... after a first moment of denial she had to admit that she had a relation with him for 3 months. I wanted to not give up, for my son and because i loved her like crazy, but after some time i realized my trust was gone, beyond repair. I moved to a small apartment not too far away, after all i still had a son. She used her time and influence on our son (9 years old at the time) to tell him a bunch of lies about me, i don't even know what, but he decided to ignore me, and before i knew it, i was out from his life. I was hoping that after a fist moment of confusion he would see what was going on but it never happened. Today i live alone, she is gone with my son, and i have no idea where they are. She changed her tel. number and the one of my son within 2 weeks, e-mail adresses are not anymore active. I know he knows my mail adress, he just decided i was not worthed. The last time i saw him was more than a year ago.

 

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Sunday, September 11, 2016 3:59 PM
TheBestAdvice

Before the internet, before the printing press, before most people could read, knowledge was passed from generation to generation through stories, parables, and "old sayings."  This knowledge is the condensation of human wisdom. Have you ever heard the saying "Marry in haste, repent at leisure."

When you moved in with someone after a week, you are volunteering for what happens to you thereafter. 

 
Sunday, September 11, 2016 7:20 PM
ALF

She was no good to begin with.  If I've said it once, I've said it a thousand times; don't move in with the pussy.

 
Monday, September 12, 2016 12:27 AM
LanaH102

I have no sympathy for any fool who puts up with that to begin with. You deserve everything that's happened for no other reason than your a weak man.

 
Monday, September 12, 2016 12:45 AM
MrAnonymus

Wow this makes the heart bleed!

Dude you need to pull yourself together ok what you did with the child was truly commendable but the bastard wasn't yours so more on as for the female aka his whore mother what she did was strip you down and piss over you all while smiling in upur face! Her taking herself out of your life is actually a blessing not entirely sure how but it would have been worst for you to stay with this puta! Absolutely shameless woman!

I just hope that you can see retrospectively that she was poison but more importantly that you have learned from this is only fools rush in. Dating it there for a reason granted there is a chance a woman is ruthless but by dating your giving each other a chance to prove your worth. Pick yourself up and move on you dodged a lifetime of hurt be thankful it was only 15 years and not 50!!!

 
Monday, September 12, 2016 3:06 AM
Guest

It is never wasted time! You learned to love as an adult, that is not wasted. You tried to do well by your wife and her child, that shows strength, courage and love. Now learn from the past. 

1. Your wife was not taking care of her needs as a person, that is why she fucked another guy out of boredom. Stay out of partnerships with weak people.

2. Your doing "the right thing" and trying to stick it out with her and her bastard child put a tremendous pressure on your weak wife. Your noble act only made her betrayal worse.

3. Her ongoing cheating is proof of the above. 

4. For reasons unknown to me, many wives view their marriage relationship as one of competition rather than cooperation. Most husbands do not have the same view. Look around at married couples and see if I am right. This is a fatal flaw in a marriage and predicts a bad marriage if not a divorce. 

5. Good luck, you can do better next time if you think things through and look for a decent, healthy, strong partner. 

 
Tuesday, September 13, 2016 4:36 AM
Guest

you should learn whatlove is if the person you love cheats on you they dont deserve you. by the way who lives with someone 1 week after they meet???

 
Thursday, September 15, 2016 10:39 AM
spreadslutluv2fuk26

I wish I could let loose around my husband.

i would love to bring a girl home to play with me and have him join both is u. 

i would especially love my man watching me be fooled around by another guy.

 I would best love being a dirty slut, behind closed doors, and share my sexy pussy with guys, but not give it up. If my man lets me. Then I want both of them fucking me. Then talking about it while fucking me!telling him (my man) how much my mans dick is bigger and better! Even if my man told me what to do. I would love to watch him fuck a girl, and play with her the way I tell him too, i would wat eat her out, and lick her pusssy, finger and tease her and stretch her with my fingers, and have my husband fuck her and me, and have both our pussy juice on his dick going in and out of both of us, back and forth.

But it's all good- I masterbate instead, and look at porn, and imagine my man and I involved  having fun with sexy babes! 

 

 

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