Been married for 10 years and we dated for 4 years prior. We have two kids who are our world and live a comfortable life style. My wife was a ten when we meet and is still a ten at 37 years old. We have a boring sex life, her drive is much lower than my own. I try often to Initiate but usually find she is too tired and would rather just sleep. After a while of this I began to feel that maybe I just wasn’t cutting it for her in the bedroom. She was always a bit reserved when it came to sex but was even more reserved after we were married. She won’t let me go down on her, she felt it was dirty. I miss and crave that and try all the time with her pulling at me and stopping me in my tracks.

I can count on one hand how many times she had orally pleased me. It’s always missionary position as she was never open to trying new things. I even tried to introduce a sex toy into our play but she wanted nothing to do with it.  I have a Ferrier for a wife who acts like a Kia in the bedroom. I never thought about cheating on my wife and have just accepted her for who she is. Yes it's a bit frustrating at times and have learned to deal with that by taking care of myself more often than not.

This is where things in my life changes. On my way to work I stopped for coffee.  In line for Coffee there was a woman in front of me. She kept looking back at me like she knew me but couldn’t place the face. To my surprise she turned around, stuck out her hand and introduced her to me as Karen. I was taken off guard as this was not something that ever happens when I’m standing in line for coffee or any other time since I was in my twenties.  She talked to me though out my entire order and out the door. I was really just thinking about getting to work and still didn’t understand why she was talking to me. It finally dawned on me that she was hitting on me. I asked her straight out if she was and she said yes.

I immediately felt flattered but said I was married. Karen said, if you don’t mind me not minding that your married here is my card. I work down the street if you ever want to meet for lunch. I thought about her for the rest of the day, she was older late 40’s, not thin but not fat, wore a littel too much makup but didn't think she was ugly. She had a large chest and nice ass from what I could see. I couldn’t stop thinking about her and how she approached me.

I didn’t think and just acted.  Called her the next day, we had lunch and I learned she was also married. We traded stories and ended up getting along very well. She was very flirty and ithat was a turn on for me. I was excited at the thought of it and had not felt this way in years. We meet every day that week for lunch and on Friday we kissed each other good bye. She really knew how to kiss and had my head spinning.

We didnlt have lunch the following Monday but Karen ended up calling me right before the end of the day, Working in a small office everyone was gone by 5:15 and my office was empty. Karen met me at my office and we started going at it right then and there. She had my shirt off and was already working on my pants. She went right down on me without even thinking twice about it. Karen was not a 10 like my wife but she knew how to please and wanted to be pleased.

We now meet me once a week and we do everything under the sun, she is very open sexually and that's a huge turn on for me. Karen’s sexual desires and kinky needs almost exceed my own.

I feel guilty doing this at times but I also feel we all get what we want. My wife gets a happier husband, Karen husband has a happier wife. Karen and I get exactly what we need from each other. In the end we are all getting what we need. Don’t think I should feel bad about that.