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I cheated on my wife

Friday, July 1, 2016 12:05 PM by Ghost Rating: +41|-7

Been married for 10 years and we dated for 4 years prior. We have two kids who are our world and live a comfortable life style. My wife was a ten when we meet and is still a ten at 37 years old. We have a boring sex life, her drive is much lower than my own. I try often to Initiate but usually find she is too tired and would rather just sleep. After a while of this I began to feel that maybe I just wasn’t cutting it for her in the bedroom. She was always a bit reserved when it came to sex but was even more reserved after we were married. She won’t let me go down on her, she felt it was dirty. I miss and crave that and try all the time with her pulling at me and stopping me in my tracks.

I can count on one hand how many times she had orally pleased me. It’s always missionary position as she was never open to trying new things. I even tried to introduce a sex toy into our play but she wanted nothing to do with it.  I have a Ferrier for a wife who acts like a Kia in the bedroom. I never thought about cheating on my wife and have just accepted her for who she is. Yes it's a bit frustrating at times and have learned to deal with that by taking care of myself more often than not.

This is where things in my life changes. On my way to work I stopped for coffee.  In line for Coffee there was a woman in front of me. She kept looking back at me like she knew me but couldn’t place the face. To my surprise she turned around, stuck out her hand and introduced her to me as Karen. I was taken off guard as this was not something that ever happens when I’m standing in line for coffee or any other time since I was in my twenties.  She talked to me though out my entire order and out the door. I was really just thinking about getting to work and still didn’t understand why she was talking to me. It finally dawned on me that she was hitting on me. I asked her straight out if she was and she said yes.

I immediately felt flattered but said I was married. Karen said, if you don’t mind me not minding that your married here is my card. I work down the street if you ever want to meet for lunch. I thought about her for the rest of the day, she was older late 40’s, not thin but not fat, wore a littel too much makup but didn't think she was ugly. She had a large chest and nice ass from what I could see. I couldn’t stop thinking about her and how she approached me.

I didn’t think and just acted.  Called her the next day, we had lunch and I learned she was also married. We traded stories and ended up getting along very well. She was very flirty and ithat was a turn on for me. I was excited at the thought of it and had not felt this way in years. We meet every day that week for lunch and on Friday we kissed each other good bye. She really knew how to kiss and had my head spinning.

We didnlt have lunch the following Monday but Karen ended up calling me right before the end of the day, Working in a small office everyone was gone by 5:15 and my office was empty. Karen met me at my office and we started going at it right then and there. She had my shirt off and was already working on my pants. She went right down on me without even thinking twice about it. Karen was not a 10 like my wife but she knew how to please and wanted to be pleased.

We now meet me once a week and we do everything under the sun, she is very open sexually and that's a huge turn on for me. Karen’s sexual desires and kinky needs almost exceed my own.

 

I feel guilty doing this at times but I also feel we all get what we want. My wife gets a happier husband, Karen husband has a happier wife. Karen and I get exactly what we need from each other. In the end we are all getting what we need. Don’t think I should feel bad about that. 

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Friday, July 1, 2016 8:15 PM
Rick

  Ok listen. You and your lover are wrong. It doesn't  matter how you spin it. Put yourself in your wifes  shoe's. How would it feel if it was your wife doing  it to you.  Don't  get me wrong she might be doing the same but two  wrongs don't  make a right. It is selfish and deceitful to the one you claim you love. I understand  that your wife has been lacking in the sex department  but there are better ways to handle it. Even  if she refused counseling  you should of talked her ears off. 

 I lived in a similar  situation  as you. Beautiful  wife who everyone  envy. As soon as I got the wedding ring on sex went from every day to once a week, then once every  three  months  until  she decided to give me sex when it was a holiday  or my birthday. This women would suck my sack clean and then one day she decided that it was degrading  to women. It was ok for men to do it because they love it. Her words. Believe me  I tried and even told her I wasn't  happy and was going to leave. She laughed and said I couldn't  do better and took it as a joke. She was right I couldn't  do better. Women are dumb and don't  realize even women in Hollywood  get cheated  on. So it doesn't  matter  how beautiful  you look men will get tired  and bored of them. I didn't  cheat I just woke up one day and left. After 5 years of marriage  I gave her the old fuck you I'm gone.  She suffered  and I didn't  care. I met this women who was a fun freak and we had a good time. Two and a half years went by and we broke up? It was just sex and we both knew it wasn't  going to last. She was 9 years younger  and didn't  want a serious  relationship. My ex found out  an don't  know how she did it but we got back together. We are in a very good situation  right now and we went to church  counselor  who helped us out alot.  You be surprised  what women will do if they love you. If not walk away. 

 

 
Saturday, July 2, 2016 2:20 PM
Guest

Good for you! Don't blame you. Enjoy and be careful. 

 
Saturday, July 2, 2016 3:03 PM
Guest

You are sick man your wife should leave your sorry ass

 
Sunday, July 3, 2016 11:01 AM
Guest

She cheating on you I bet she makes up story's she going out to friends. Place out the blue she be back later arguments with you just to leave she brings guys home say friend or sleep on couch really nice too them eye contact or soon he leaves with in hour she out the door should put cameras up you find out the truth 

 
Sunday, July 3, 2016 11:05 AM
Guest

Don't blame him at all I beat she doing too him her name is veronica  put up cams tracking see truth  not faithful why always behind on bills she don't won't too move 

 
Friday, July 8, 2016 12:17 PM
Guest

Being in a different but ultimately similar situation to you I can only suggest this. Get yourself an audio book or two on the impacts of cheating. Listen to it when ever you can. Let it fill your brain with the future outcomes, conversations and judgements you will face. If that doesn't give you the "moment of clarity" you are looking for then you are probably better off going to a prostitute that can work with your needs. At least when you get busted, it's more explainable and less damaging. It's not an affair then. It's just sex. Which by the sounds of it is just what it is. But do you think your wife will see it that way?  Or Karen's husband. Nope neither do I. Good luck and posted without judgement. 

 
Thursday, July 14, 2016 4:52 AM
Guest

Mate, if u love ur wife truely, just tell fuck off to Karen & walk away. That old slut is probably fucking another 50 guys at the same time but u're getting hope of ur little pee pee into her filthy v-na rest of ur life? No brother, ur wife will find out & u'll suffer - one way or the other. Losing ur wife won't matter but losing ur kids will eventually kill u! Good luck!

 
Wednesday, July 27, 2016 10:04 AM
LJ

Good for you

Kinky affairs, great turn on incredible sex!

 

 
Saturday, August 6, 2016 4:15 PM
ALF

Your wife is a '10' and she's always to tired to have sex?  That's because she's worn herself out having sex with someone else.  You should have just left her rather than get yourself into drama with another man's wife.

 

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