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My wife cheated on me

Tuesday, May 24, 2016 3:55 PM by Guest Rating: +26|-10

So it all started out abou a month ago when I was getting suspicious that my wife was having an affair. She was spending less time with me, the kids, and she was spending more time at her job. I was looking at her face book when I noticed she was talking to this guy who I reonized as a male friend from work. They've been having interment conversations like "what are you wearing and so on but the worst part was the photos of my wife in nude.Being in Denise and wanting more evidence I go out and start spying in them. They've  been going out to dinner and spending the night together when she should be with the kids. So one night they start to get physical and go to the guys place to have sex. I just lose it right there and confront my wife. Word were said and I end up giving the guy a black eye. I liked my wife out of the apartment, told her paranets , told my parents our friends. And we've started to file for divorce. I'm so lost right now.This is the woman who I thought would be the one. The one to have kids with, the one to live the rest of our lives with, the one to share happy and sad moments with. I feel like I can't go on without her. I know she had an Adair but she's shown remorse and I feel bad that I told people about the affair. My parents wolnt talk to her, her parants are super mad at her and all her friends are pretty shocked at what she did and she keeps suffering. Did I make the right disigions, did I do something wrong, will I find the right woman I feel so lost. Any advice 

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Wednesday, May 25, 2016 2:23 AM
Guest

  Man the fuck up. She did not care about your feelings when she was fucking the dude. If a women what's to be slutty  let her be, it's her body and life. Now when a women makes a commitment  it changes  things,  Her slutty  days should be at an end. She decided to spend time with her lover over the kids. If she wasn't  happy at home she should of came to you and gave you a fair chance to fix what was broken. There are many stories  of  this same situation and the kids suffer the most. Find someone true to you. No matter what she says don't take her back. She is not remorseful  she is embarrassed. Funny how  remorse is mentioned after they get cought. Real remorse would had made her told you out of guilt. She would of confess. Bill Clinton was also remorseful  after they found semen on the dress.  

The guy probably  doesn't  want her because she was a toy. She felt used and now she knows her fuck ups. Grass wasn't  greener on the other side.why be with a dumb bitch? You don't  need to be with her to be  a good father. Get in shape, dress to impress and live happy. Then rub it  in her face. She was slut shamed now she needs to be humbled. Believe me your doing her a favor and making her think twice about cheating . She will be a better women. All because  of you.  Oh yeah fuck her best friend or sister. OK the last part is bad advice  

     😒 OR IS IT?

 
Wednesday, May 25, 2016 2:53 AM
LanaH102

First thing is go back to school and learn how to write. Secondly, Walk away from this pathetic woman

 
Wednesday, May 25, 2016 12:12 PM
Albert

You did the right thing. Affairs die when exposed to sun light. 1st thing you needed to do was to stop the affair. You also embarrassed the other man by punching him out. Is she asking for reconciliation? If she is you can delay your decision and take it day by day. Most likely you are in shock and you may not be ready to make a decision yet.

 
Wednesday, May 25, 2016 7:08 PM
Guest

you did everything correct, everyone should know what a selfish bitch this woman is. do not go back to her and unfortunatly my own past dictates I say this, but get your kids DNA tested

 
Friday, May 27, 2016 4:06 AM
Guest

Wow your story sounds a lot like what happened between my wife and I.  Very close.  I was with my wife, married or almost two years.  No kids yet but we were working on it.  I was suspicious of my wife when she started staying at work later and later.  I showed up at her work one day to take we o lunch and she was acting mad that I came to her work.  I knew then that something was up.  My wife did something much worse to me though.  She took off for a wemyself ek, didn't call, nothing.  I had no idea where she was or what she was doing.  I found out she was in Vegas.  She came back and acted like she didn't know me anymore.  It made me sick to my stomach and I was also lost and upset.  I made the stupid mistake of begging her to change her mind.  It just made it worse between us.  That was in 2012.  To this day, I miss her so much and often think about her.  I would stay up at night and think about her and wonder how she was doing.  It only made me depressed and doubt myself as a man.  You are going to have to muster up as much strength as you possibly can.  You will miss her but eventually see that she was the selfish and life goes on.  I feel for you mad your situation.  Try to be strong.  

 
Saturday, May 28, 2016 12:25 PM
Guest

 you did the right thing. Once someone cheats, the relationship is over. I agree with one guy who commented. Get a DNA test on the kids to make sure they are yours. and if they are, keep them away from her. I know it's mean to say that but kids take after their parents and its good that they don't pick up any 'bad habits' from their mom, especially if you have a daughter. Best they have a positive role model like you. Atleast now you get a chance to move on and find your REAL soulmate.

 
Wednesday, June 29, 2016 3:02 AM
Guest

I can understand your anger and distress. My wife cheated with one of my junior execs, a real loser both in looks and personality, but an obvious winner in other ways.  He certainly saw an opportunity and went for it. Like you i felt truly bereft, I couldn't understand why she was throwing everything we had away - it had all seemed so good.  Obviously it wasn't, and I had missed signs of real distress. Unlike you I had no control over the final outcome, there was no remorse, no discussions, no way back, she was leaving and wanted an immediate divorce.  Her whole personality changed, there was no emotion, no sentimentality - it felt as though she was getting even, avenging some crime I had committed, even down to leaving me to pay her tax bill (she was self employed!) and all the credit card bills maxed out during pre-leave spending sessions. Yet after all that I still loved her and would have done anything to have had a chance to start over. Maybe I'm a wimp, but you cannot let your life be driven by anger. If your wife really was the 'one' and is remorseful, truly fegreting her actions, then perhaps you should endeavour to rekindle the relationship. If you don't try then I know that years on you will regret your inaction. Manningup is not always about chest-beating in anger, it takes far more strength to rebuild connections than to destroy them.  As far those guys that have mentioned DNA-testing your children, why put yourself through the agony of thinking that the children are not yours - leave that to emotional masochists who enjoy making themselves suffer. 

 
Sunday, July 31, 2016 1:38 AM
Guest

well there's no right choice.. If you want to stay with her stay.. If you want to Leave her leave there's no right answer. Give your self time the pain you will fade as time passes on.. It's only in your head how important she is because really she's not plenty of women.. Just give your self time

 

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