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I cheated on my boyfriend

Thursday, July 20, 2017 8:06 PM by nah Rating: +119|-103

Alright so, I had been dating this guy for two years. We were very bad for each other so inevitably, we broke up. we had lots of sloppy, messy encounters since then because there's this undeniable chemistry between the two of us. Sexually and emotionally. He was and is one of the best friends I've ever had. Anyway, I met a different guy. We dated for a while and became a lot more serious. Now we're engaged but he's emotionally abusive and all around draining to deal with. I'd wait for him to not be around for me to be able to hang out with my best friend only because no one understood our friendship. Occasionally, I'd make out with my friend. Nothing too serious. I just missed kissing him and it's the one thing in the world that feels right. Let's call him James. James is the person that I'd drop everything for and go to him at 4 AM. He's truly my best friend. Now, the guy I'm engaged to actually just went out of town and James came over last night. We were just.... having fun. We were drinking, dancing and all around just enjoying each other's company. I don't know what got us into this positon but suddenly we were making out like we normally would. Only this time, there was no fear of either of our significant others waking up or coming into the room. It was just the two of us at my house so obviously, there was nothing there to stop us. We ended up having sex and while I probably should, I don't feel any sort of guilt or regret. I'm never going to tell my fiance. I just needed to lay it all out. There's so much more back story because James and I have quite the history but ultimately we're no good together and there's no chance of us ever being together again. We both have quite a few problems but the similarities in our problems is that neither of us feel guilt for what we do or what we've done. Both of us love the other unconditionally. I can't make sense of the connection that we have and both of us have just given up. To sum this story up, I cheated on someone who loves me very much and didn't even care. I don't think I'm meant to be monogamous.

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Comments

Friday, August 25, 2017 11:02 AM

Mr2Kinky

Sounds like you should just keep having random hookups with him. No need to tell your fiancé. You need your urge satisfied.

Wednesday, August 30, 2017 12:14 AM

Carter Slade

Burn in hell. Uhm and mr kinky. I hope we will meet someday.

Thursday, August 31, 2017 11:14 AM

Mr2Kinky

@Carter Slade, that would be nice.

Monday, September 4, 2017 9:44 PM

2Cents

@Mr2Kinky thats horrible. Cheating is a type of abuse and it fucks people up mentally. If she wants to do her random hook ups she needs to leave her fiancé. And the same to the guy she is hooking up with.

Tuesday, September 5, 2017 10:19 AM

Mr2Kinky

@2Cents... I respect that.

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Thursday, December 28, 2017 1:39 AM

Guest

The Fiance is emotionally abusive and a drain to be around? I would bet my life that is because he doesn't trust you. He is in love and wants to trust you but probably knows deep down he shouldn't. He probably doesn't believe your ex bf/current best friend is really "just a good friend" and not a constant threat to his relationship with you, and he is right. He probably doesn't like you going anywhere without him because he doesn't trust you to behave appropriately, and he is right not too. Hell he probably has mixed feeling about nights out with you particularly drinking becuase you proabaly act to much like you are still "on the market" in a way that humilates him. He doesn't know for sure that you are totally faithless but he feels it and is taking those feelings out on you (rightly so even though he doesn't know for sure). You are a fool to marry him or even continue to date your fiance and continue to be faithless. He is going to feel it more and more and be more and more sure that there is something real behind his feelings. He will take it out on you more and more. You will make each other miserable. You deserve that but he doesn't.

Thursday, April 12, 2018 2:08 PM

Tomkat

If you think you're not meant to be monogamous, you're not, so don't be. I was married to a woman for fifteen years who also wasn't meant to be monogamous. When I found out about her infidelity and confronted her about it we discussed it civilly. We decided that we'd share an open marriage rather than a divorce. We got on very well together, enjoyed magnificent sex so why would we want to throw all that away? I actually encouraged her to enjoy an extra-marital sex-life ensuring that she was always the sexiest babe anywhere> The only reason we eventually parted company was merely to explore new horisons. We still conducted a sexual affair for a few years after we split and it was wonderful. We had 15 good years together and a few just as good afterwards.

Thursday, May 3, 2018 3:54 PM

Guest

Stupid slut

Saturday, June 30, 2018 5:48 PM

Guest

lady you are really messed up if u think he is emotionally abusive leave him and then continue with your hook up with your so called "best friend" .....but please dont cheat on your fiance

Tuesday, July 17, 2018 9:56 PM

Guest

Look lady I have been in a relationship for 18yrs now I have 4 boys and another baby on the and with in those years I thought I could always trust my girlfriend but after 12 yrs into the relationship I found out 4 days before Christmas that my girlfriend cheated on my 7 yrs prior and that my oldest son may not be mine she had a few times with that piece of shit and then he died I was devastated and wanted to die after hearing that horrible news I even cheated on her once but it was out of anger and almost ended badly we are still together now but I die everyday just a little when it crosses my mind so please don't cheat on your fiance if you don't love him just leave him it will be the best for both of you. You ma not have any guilt now but trust me time catches up to us all and one day your gonna look back and say was it worth it trust me it's happened to me and it was the worst decision I ever made good luck

Friday, July 27, 2018 6:16 PM

Guest

I've been there. Never thought i would be. Kind of the opposite. My boyfriend of two years has cheated on me twice-emotionally. Before him, there was a guy that i had been in love with for a while and had been friends for a long time. We have always had some kind of chemistry but the timing was never right-he was in Japan, i was in Oklahoma and we never seemed to be on the same page. My boyfriend (ex fiance) had cheated with a girl around my birthday and broke my heart. We are currently trying to work things out via therapy but I still feel like it isn't working sometimes.
During this time, my friend and ex love was my rock through the problems that i was having in my relationship. He drove nine hours to come down and visit me and i ended up cheating on my boyfriend with him (several times). I still love my boyfriend but I had stopped feeling wanted and heard in my relationship. This whole experience just makes me think that sometimes you need to cheat because your significant other isn't fulfilling your needs.

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