Saturday, February 20, 2016 7:13 PM by Robert
12 years married with a 6 year old and 11 year old. My wife cheated with a coworker for about a year found out 4 months ago. Just like most it hit me hard .. I went into shock.. For about 2 weeks then I was mad tryed to find the guy to beat his ass. Never found him found his wife and told her but she already knew. Then my wife was about to move out then I stop her. And I decided to try to save the marriage went to marriage builders.com and got all this information and everything my wife seemed sorry and was doing everything she could. But the pain of betrayal is deep. The truth is we all are imperfect and forgiving is to love someone. And Then I have my moments I just hate her and feel like every one knows look there the guy with the whore wife.But I know it's all in my head .. .the way I see it ..its like breaking a bone it will heal but when it rain it's going to hurt. So I'm trying to work it .. I'm four months in it hard but each day at time.