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Wife cheating?

My wife cheated on me

Monday, January 4, 2016 5:38 AM by Guest Rating: +42|-35

We have been married for more than 30 years but my wife is still very attractive. She refuses to have sex; last time was months ago.  A few days ago she said that she doesn’t like me anymore.  She doesn’t want a divorce, but she says she is not attracted to me. 

Saturday: We live in a small town so things are done rather quickly, going from one place to another and run errands, maximum 10 minutes to anywhere in town.    My wife says she is going to dump some boxes to the town municipal garbage dump, about 5 minutes away.  The curious thing is that she puts on very nice clothes; she has full make up and does her hair like she is going to work or a social.  Red lights go off in my mind.  She also says she will also stop at the Laundromat to wash some bed cover.  She leaves and takes about four hours; when she comes back she did not dump the boxes because she said the place was closed and she did not wash the bed cover.  Where was she for four hours? 

Another day she is not working: She gets up rather early, again makes herself very nice.  She prepares two burritos wraps them to go (she never eats more than a burrito).  I get up and go to the kitchen.  She is about to leave with the burritos when she sees me she puts them back on the kitchen counter and says that the two rather big burritos are for me, when I usually eat just one; I ask shy the wrapping? She does not answer, says she is going to take our daughter to work and again that she will go to the Laundromat to wash the same bed cover from a couple of weeks ago.  She leaves and comes back about four or five hours later.  Later talking to a friend she says that she didn’t have a chance to wash the confounded cover; then she tells me this guy from work showed up at the Laundromat by chance and tells her some gossip.  I guess the burritos were intended for the guy to start with.  As for the four hours she says she went to the supermarket; for four hours?

Gets home from working late on a Sunday (she did go to work but can’t account for all the time), she comes back at about 10:30.  She comes back straight to the bedroom without saying hello, when I walk into the bedroom she is taking off her undies and putting on clean ones which is rather unusual.  When she sees me she picks up her underwear in a rather odd way, she bundles them in her hand and goes straight away to the washing machine and puts them to wash at that hour.  Odd.

I pick up her phone late in the night to see her calls.  There are several calls from this guy at work.  But I think she has erased others.  She has a rather long message from the same guy saying how she is such a wonderful lady, how he appreciates her very much etc.  Then I notice other messages telling her to meet at certain places, the guy always uses “we” like “we” will meet you here, “we” will have lunch with you, etc.  I suspect is a code.

She works very late all the time; she goes to places but always has a plausible excuse.  The other night she said she was at work late as usual.  I went to her work and her vehicle was not there.  She came back very late said she had some function.  She is noticeable drunk, but she tries hard to act normal, her eyes are glazed, she is acting strange; she changes to her PJ and goes to sleep almost immediately.  She says she was at work doing a work party or something; but when I went to her workplace she passed me the other way in her car at pretty high speed.  Later without noticing she says all the guys went to a bar in town, but that she did not go.  I know that when she passed me she was going there.  She lied.



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Wednesday, January 6, 2016 3:28 PM

why are you with her? Divorce her be a fucking MAN

Wednesday, January 6, 2016 3:31 PM

Someone else is willing to fucka you. your just her sugar  daddy with out the perks. Idiot! what happen to men these days.ūüė°

Wednesday, January 6, 2016 3:35 PM

  Step 1 follow her.  Step 2 really order her.   Step 3 try to fu know all the women she knows and divorce her. For  the love of God get you manhood back.  Tell her she is an ugly bitch and she did you a favor by cheating on you. Celebrate  with strppers.

Wednesday, January 6, 2016 3:37 PM

sorry step two is record her these site is really screwy

Thursday, January 7, 2016 4:45 PM

dude.... she is fucking another man.

Is this even a question anymore? You know the answer to this. You know whats going on.

You wanna get even or do you want to salvage your marriage?

IF you want proof, change your name in her phone, to this guys name. Then text her and ask her if she wants to have a quickie. What she texts back will either incriminate, or absolve her.

IF you just want to get even, then go fuck some 20 year olds. Go fuck some hookers, and strippers. Go have some fun, cause she is clearly going and having fun.

Friday, January 8, 2016 2:09 PM

Gee mate I feel for you. I am going through my wife cheating at the moment, I am only finding out more as the days go on. I know my marriage of24years is over but the pain and emotion is unbearable.yes yours is over too,I put a lot of it down to mid life crisis and menopause, hormones go wild. These other guys answers are pretty harsh and shallow.

imknow there are more woman out there but when someone cheats on you it means they lie so much also when you ask about it. Once they've done it once it will happen again.

Saturday, January 9, 2016 8:06 PM

bough red flags. Now! If you wanna embarrass her and not look like an idiot, hire a private investigator and video tape and photograph every move. After gathering all that information just ask her where has she been. If she says oh I was at the bla bla bla then slam those pictures in her face and play the videos. Trust me you will be happy. Don't abuse her though

Monday, January 11, 2016 1:16 AM

She is cheating, leave her but make sure she does not get anything from you. If u gave a proof she is cheating can she get anything from you during devorce?

it that is yes, then record a taoe fir her and file it in the case.


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