Monday, January 4, 2016 5:38 AM by Guest
We have been married for more than 30 years but my wife is still very attractive. She refuses to have sex; last time was months ago. A few days ago she said that she doesn’t like me anymore. She doesn’t want a divorce, but she says she is not attracted to me.
Saturday: We live in a small town so things are done rather quickly, going from one place to another and run errands, maximum 10 minutes to anywhere in town. My wife says she is going to dump some boxes to the town municipal garbage dump, about 5 minutes away. The curious thing is that she puts on very nice clothes; she has full make up and does her hair like she is going to work or a social. Red lights go off in my mind. She also says she will also stop at the Laundromat to wash some bed cover. She leaves and takes about four hours; when she comes back she did not dump the boxes because she said the place was closed and she did not wash the bed cover. Where was she for four hours?
Another day she is not working: She gets up rather early, again makes herself very nice. She prepares two burritos wraps them to go (she never eats more than a burrito). I get up and go to the kitchen. She is about to leave with the burritos when she sees me she puts them back on the kitchen counter and says that the two rather big burritos are for me, when I usually eat just one; I ask shy the wrapping? She does not answer, says she is going to take our daughter to work and again that she will go to the Laundromat to wash the same bed cover from a couple of weeks ago. She leaves and comes back about four or five hours later. Later talking to a friend she says that she didn’t have a chance to wash the confounded cover; then she tells me this guy from work showed up at the Laundromat by chance and tells her some gossip. I guess the burritos were intended for the guy to start with. As for the four hours she says she went to the supermarket; for four hours?
Gets home from working late on a Sunday (she did go to work but can’t account for all the time), she comes back at about 10:30. She comes back straight to the bedroom without saying hello, when I walk into the bedroom she is taking off her undies and putting on clean ones which is rather unusual. When she sees me she picks up her underwear in a rather odd way, she bundles them in her hand and goes straight away to the washing machine and puts them to wash at that hour. Odd.
I pick up her phone late in the night to see her calls. There are several calls from this guy at work. But I think she has erased others. She has a rather long message from the same guy saying how she is such a wonderful lady, how he appreciates her very much etc. Then I notice other messages telling her to meet at certain places, the guy always uses “we” like “we” will meet you here, “we” will have lunch with you, etc. I suspect is a code.
She works very late all the time; she goes to places but always has a plausible excuse. The other night she said she was at work late as usual. I went to her work and her vehicle was not there. She came back very late said she had some function. She is noticeable drunk, but she tries hard to act normal, her eyes are glazed, she is acting strange; she changes to her PJ and goes to sleep almost immediately. She says she was at work doing a work party or something; but when I went to her workplace she passed me the other way in her car at pretty high speed. Later without noticing she says all the guys went to a bar in town, but that she did not go. I know that when she passed me she was going there. She lied.