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Wife of 3 years cheated

My wife cheated on me

Wednesday, June 21, 2017 11:43 AM by Guest Rating: +98|-93

Hi guys, so i have been with with wonderful woman since 2017, we married in 2014 due to her being pregnant with my child, Anyway i never treated her like I should have (I was a terrible husband and father and i deserve this pain) and about a month ago, she walked out after an argument (She has done it before but we always worked things out)..... anyways after begging and pleading for her to come back home she refused. since she moved out with my daughter to stay with her mom and one night my daughter had a terrible flu and fever and she asked me to come over to help which i dont mind as my daughter is my world, and we laying in bed i noticed she is deep in her phone, very protective and taking it with her everywhere, I thought maybe she is chatting to her sisters and friends as she is close to them. Then noticed she dresses up very pretty for work (she works in retail and works long hours) which i was amazed at how beautiful she looked even though we were seperated. so i have being cheated on before i started picking up these signs, i asked her sisters if my wife is chatting to them and to my surprise she doesnt talk to them at all yet someone has her attention.

 

So a few days ago, before i dropped my daughter by her, she said she is going out with a few friends which i found strange because im dropping our child and she wasnt even gonna be there. But she said she wasnt feeling well and they dropped her off (the guy she was seeing took her out for lunch)... so we started talking etc put my daughter to sleep, and she came onto me saying how much she misses me, loves me and wants to come back and before we mad sex where i came inside her, she said she wants to go for a HIV test which caught me off guard (we always used condoms) then the next day she said she cant do this and she dont want another child, she needs time etc which confused even more cause i thought we were sorted.

 

My gut is telling me to ask if there is another person involved, which she confessed to, a guy from work that took notice of her when she left me and she has been intimate with a few times without protection in his car, and according to her she has feelings for him which i think is bullshit as work relationships dont really work..... the fag didnt even take her for the HIV test, preganancy test or getting a morning after pill ( I did all this because i do care about my wife's well being) he just asked over instant messaging and calls her and asks if she is okay....... she said she wanted to hurt me in the way i hurt her (yes she caught me flirting with close friend which cut all ties off and i wasnt the man she fell in love with) but i have never cheated on her physically, she say she loves and wants to work this out but how do I trust the woman I love? I feel literally nothing but dissapointment and sadness knowing she sees him at work (she works with him) and she never bothered with protection and another man had his hands on her body..... she say she feels really guilty and is willing to work things out( I forgave her for the sake of my daughter) but if she has feelings for another for another guy that says our marriage is dead......

 

I have started to change my ways for the sake of daughter by being there more for her as she is only part of wife that loves me......

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Saturday, July 22, 2017 8:23 AM
Guest

dude stop simping and divorce her there is no excuse for cheating no matter how you treat her are you stupis go listen some mgtow videos or tom lykis on youtube

 
Friday, August 11, 2017 9:25 PM
Guest

No, divorce is not the answer.  Change your behavior and get used to her cheating.  The die is cast and now you should accept it and live with it

 
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Friday, January 26, 2018 10:57 AM
Guest

Belt the shit out of the other guy cut off  his dick

 
Thursday, May 17, 2018 3:33 AM
Guest

Hadn't you heard of surrogacy, marrying an overseas bride, or vetting your wife? What an idiot is he who gets married with some American woman. Divorce her and pray you get to not pay high alimony/child support costs! Mgtow mgtow mgtow!

 
Monday, June 11, 2018 4:20 PM
Will

Dude, none of us are perfect so don't blame yourself for indfidelity.  I'm going through the same thing right now.  Although I still struggle for my feelings for her, she clearly isn't that "wonderful".  Be a better you for yourself and your kids.  DO NOT worry about her.  There are billions of women and this planet and she is just 1 who wasn't good enough for you.  Did you read that?  She wasn't good enough for you.  It will take time, you can love someone else again.  I believe that for myself, eventually.  Just don't make the same mistakes that led you to her.

Also, go see a therapist.  It's making the world of difference for me and I was the kind of guy who would never seek professional help. 

 

-Will

 
Monday, June 11, 2018 4:27 PM
Will

 Also, if you have thoughts like "if only I did xyz, she wouldn't have cheated" or "why am I not good enough for her" or "the woman I know still loves me" then it's time for you to initiate divorce, bro.  My problem (and I'm guessing yours) is that I became too emotionally dependent on my wife.  Family, friends (get new friends now!), and even platonic relationships with women will help.  I'm only in month one, it's a struggle but I know this will get better.  I know my wife hates me now for her own bizarre reasons and know she doesn't love me.  It's still a struggle because I wish she was the person I thought she was.  Everyone tells me time will fix it.  The minute you drop her is the minute you begin the long road of healing, bro.

 
Monday, June 11, 2018 4:30 PM
Will

With all I said before in mind but you are bent on fixing your marriage then both of you go to marriage counseling together.  Not a faith-based counselor, though.  They are terrible.  This may actually help her figure things out or it will help you find closure if you need to exit the marriage.  Learned that from my first marriage.

 
Monday, June 11, 2018 4:32 PM
Will

All of this hurts your kids as well.  Either you stay or go, it's going to take them years to recover if ever.  So, factor that into your feelings for her.

 
Monday, June 11, 2018 4:38 PM
Will

"So, factor that into your feelings for her."  I just want to make this clear:  that statement does not mean factoring whether you should stay with her for the sake of the kids.  They will be damaged either way, but they would be infinitely happier if they saw their dad happy.  That leads you into having a proper, functional relatioship with another woman down the road and that can make kids happy as well, no?  Sorry for the multiple messages, but like I said, I'm going through the same thing.  Family, friends, and my therapists have been working me so this is all repeated advice I've received from all of them.

 

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