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Young and Confused

Want to Cheat

Thursday, November 12, 2015 1:45 AM by Guest Rating: +12|-10

Hi everyone, I'm 19 years of age, I am currently dating someone that I've been with for 2 years now. We have been through a lot together, I have seen his bad side and he has seen mine. I struggle with depression and I recently discovered that I am in fact pregnant. I know that I can't have the baby, I am not financially or mentally stable at this time time of my life. I have grown up in a very dysfunctional family, and abuse. I am still learning to accept the unfortunate events of my past and it is difficult. I am prescribed weekly antidepressants, which I do not take properly, and I self harm as well as a way to escape my emotional baggage. Lately, after admitting to my boyfriend that I am pregnant, he hasn't been around. He avoids me constantly, and it's hurts me. I almost feel as if I'm becoming accommodated to this behaviour. Just a few days before finding that I am pregnant, I had found in his history porn Stars' name in the browser, then a notification from a girl who wears skimpy clothes. I was enraged, I felt unattractive. I then aggressively confronted him by shouting. He only tells the truth when I raise my voice, things got physical and one thing led to another next thing I realize and I'm being pushed out the door. I feel like I am dealing with this alone. I am contemplating on whether or not I should cheat on him. People tell me to leave him but I don't know what to do. I am young and confused.

Tags: Abuse; Dysfunctional Family; Pregnancy; Teenager;

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Thursday, November 12, 2015 5:10 AM

Get rid of him and get an abortion

Thursday, November 19, 2015 5:44 AM
me 101

you two need to go to  marriage counselor...don't get a abortian ,,keep your baby okay ,,I did...

Thursday, November 19, 2015 10:06 AM

Keep your baby, because I baby is a blessing. Leave him and work on yourself 

Friday, November 20, 2015 9:47 PM

dont kill the kid.  get some self confidence and find a good bf

Sunday, November 22, 2015 2:52 AM

 I'm not going to say "dont get an abortion" because at this point it isn't a baby. its a pile of cells.

While i love my daughter, a baby truly is a blessing.

Sounds like this guy is a real piece of work. My advice? Leave while u still can. You don't want to have kids with this guy, lose your youth and a good portion of your beauty, and wake up in 10 years to find out he is cheating on you. Get out while your ahead.

Tuesday, November 24, 2015 8:11 PM

In 10 years from, think of this time and what you would probably regret. Would you find yourself satified with a son or daughter then, or them even adopted somewhere, or an abortion in your history? If you went back to him, in 10 years, would you look back on that as a good decision? Whatever you do, make sure it is something you won't regret.

Monday, December 14, 2015 3:06 AM

Think everything through. Even your future career. Is this possible with a child at this age? Think everything though. 

Monday, December 14, 2015 3:13 AM

In terms of having a baby, only you can tell yourself what is right and true.

In term of your boyfriend, being abused by anyone (emotionally or physically) is not ok. 

Sunday, January 31, 2016 11:03 AM

You can always give the baby up for adoption. Being 19 and have gone through a harder life than most children, do you want your child growing up the same way? Is your BF also 19/20? If so, of course he ran. Your generation has no concept of responsibility or consequences. You only think of yourself and what's going to make you happy in the right now. 


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