My husband and I have been having problems, over a span of 9 years. He has been emotionally and physically abusive, which I've asked him to get help for. He is now, after I told him I cheated on him. I never would have believed I would have cheated, but I felt resentful, careless, and selfish. It felt good to be paid attention to by another man. As I was doing it, though, I considered what my o..