So, my wife cheated on me quite a while back. For 2 years I have been carrying this shit around with me. You know... "What could I have done better? Why did she do this to the kids? How could I have missed it for so long?" etc. I have a friend, a single one, who had been trying to get me out of my funk basically ever since it happened. I never was that great single. That's probably why it fucked..