My wife and I have been married for 17ys and we have been through a lot. Yes there was a time when I did cheat on her early on in our marriage. About seven years ago she came to me to say that she had sex with some guy at her girl friends b day party last week, I had my own plans that weekend, but I had nothing to fear she was always true. She was upset that I chose to let her go alone and along ..

  ok, I could really use some advice on why things have went this way.. please guys/gals.. I KNOW many will think "what a sap"(or worse) and will want to state so, but I'm in enough pain and would just appreiate honest thought..where I went wrong please tell me but please dont be mean(yeah,, I know I'm setting myself up,but it's worth a try)..anyways my story :     My girlfriend and I got preg..

          I met my wife at 21 years of age in collage. We both went to USF and graduated. We married in June 12 of 2001, both of us was 25. I had Christian beliefs  and she was an atheist but despite  are difference still we were in love and happy. At age 30 we had a beautiful  baby girl. And life couldn't get much better.We moved out of  our apartment  and bought a house. That's when things went..

My first wife and I had a good sexual relationship. When I met her she was living with her friend Kim, Kims boyfriend travels a lot with his job. So Debbie, my then gf would go to work Saturday mornings and at some point Debbie told Kim to go ahead and enjoy a morning with me. Kim got it started with coming from her bed room in a very sweet night gown. Very shear but sensual. (By the way, Debbie ..