hmmm did you try like i dunno....TALKING TO HIM!?

fucking kids man....smh

No one likes cheaters, and you're one of them. Please stay single for life, thanks.

I understand this a lot. I previously don't think you should be in as much heartbreak honestly. This is a lession that you will never forget, and you will find relationships that will be great also, maybe even better, but this time you understand that when you are feeling that way you need to talk it out instead of letting it fester. Ignore the rude comments on this field because honestly the only reason they are acting like this is because they don't understand or were raised in a place where cheaters where seen as scummy nobodies that will never learn, but you know from personal experience that this isn't true. You will find someone else, things will get better, but for now you are dwelling in the past. My advice: Get up, say that you were wrong and you made a mistake and learn from it. Focus on yourself and enchance your problem solving skills, and stop feeling sorry for yourself and lettin the past effect your future. You have a whole life ahead of you, live it. I hope this helps :)

If this was a guy would U guys be acting and saying these things. We all make mistakes even to the ones we love. We are all human. Your biggest mistake as was mine was the fact you were never upfront n honest about what you did. Learn from your mistake and just ensure it doesn't happen again. Everyone under your comments except one is a guy are a lonely female. The double standards of cheating is ridiculous. No one is perfect. 

To Bell

do you know why this regret that you still feel, and in fact have?  it's going to stay with you for a long time, but until you finally confess affront to your ex-boyfriend, yes confesss, even if he's still your ex boyfriend.  he probably wants answers. he's probably going to end up finding out (horrible feeling), but I'm telling you (been there),  he'll rather hear it, from you,  it's embarrassing to hear it from someone else.  it makes your character look horrible as well, like if you're bragging, not saying that you are. just tell him. I'm telling you this from experience, because it's happened to me, so take this advice wisely!  to me it sounds like you guys communicated at first, because you stressed out, you talk, it was over, made mends, so resolved.  if that's the case, I don't think he would treat you poorly, because you guys communicate, unless you did something wrong again, now mind you. this is a one-sided story but that's my opinion.  the main reason for my opinion, it's because you still loved him.  so if there was a problem he probably was ignoring you and vice versa, but doesn't excuse you for what you did.  I think both you handle the situation wrong, but you have the most guilt, Why? because you knew better, why would you do that to a guy that's faithful to you?  just confessed and I wish you good luck, and by the way this is a male giving you this advice!

I just want to say I understand I cheated on my boyfriend who I have been with for years. I felt like he was always picking his friends and self before me so I went out drinking with friends and hooked up with this guy I met, big mistake the the guy was a looser, I think back why did I go from that to that didn't do any good for my self. A few weeks later an aquantence told him about what was going on. He found out we are still togther but he treats me like crap I put up with it sometimes because I'm guilty then found out he was cheating online, Sounds like my relationship is doomed!

Been on both sides of the fence. First as a victim. Girlfriend of 3 years went for a weekend with an ex and later came to find out what she did. Though she apologized, she continued with her philandering ways till I exposed her. That was the game changer. She was pissed off because people in the hood know what she had done. Funny how she regreted being caught and not for the pain and heartache she caused me. Fast forward to 2014, I got a job and started hanging out. Met this lady and we exchanged numbers and then one thing led to another. This time, I was extremely mean t o my girlfriend. I knew cheating was wrong but I just wanted to pay her back for what she did. One day she scrolled my phone and found messages to the other girl. I had told her of my girlfriends cheating in the past. When my girlfriend confronted me, I threw it in her face and told I her "That was payback" since she had never apologized for what she put me through. I rubbed it so hard in her face everytime she started a conversation about this other girl. Things have improved now but I can say one thing. If you have cheated or cheated on, it's hard to regain trust. Your spouse or fiance won't view you the same again. I have had friends who have cheated and who still cheat and realize they just don't know what they're getting themselves into. Cheating ain't worth it and certainly there is no justification for it. Just stop being selfish and self-centered. I used to tell my girlfriend this relationship is about "Us" not I and me and myself. Bottomline is when you love somebody, you won't have reason to look at the other side. 

Damn when analyzing your words it confesses that your boyfriend is cheating too.