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Cheated on me with guy with brother friend

My wife cheated on me

Thursday, May 12, 2016 8:09 PM by Cheated in ga Rating: +6|-2

Well its been 5 years since it happened and still im suffering anytime im alone.  5 years ago my wife of 6 years at time told me she was taking my brothers friend back home after I gave the guy a place to say for a week when he had been kicke out on the street, 3 days later cops are at the house with her parents and im told i need to stay back while she gets her stuff.  It took nearlly a month to find out what was going on, or even see my son.  She had sex with the guy in the park bathroom while our son was playing. I also found out at this time the guy disapeared from town at the same time she did, Guess where he was 70 miles away in same town as wife.  She filed for divorce and i was forced to get a lawyer. Over the next month or so her family bashed me on facebook for being an abussive husband the divorce papers listed the same thing. I went to a local detective friend of mine for advise on what i could do the way she was making me look was hurting my chances of getting custady of my son he told me i was screwed on that end but to look into the guy's legal past and I found he was arrested several times for Meth use.  I broght this up to my Lawyer and was told i needed to inform my wife but legally I would stand no chance at getting custady of my son without proving the guy was doing it around my son now.  When i informed her of this she blew it off at first, but within a week she called to see if i wanted to spend time with my son.  While with my son she starts texting me, and it turns to sexting me after the boy went to bed.  She shows up to get my son as planned and talked me into a day trip to the local water park together. That night her mom calls and I hear her mom tell her "I told you that if you go back to him not to come home" she hangs up and explains that her mom basically kicked her out and she had no where to go.  Long story short within 3 months we called off the divorce and have been great every since.  We have now been together 11 years and i still find myself doing stuipd stuff when im bored like looking up the other guy's facebook to see how bad his life has turned out (and its bad :) ) but I also find myself watching porn that seems fimilar to the event that set everything in motion (public bbw cheating) it dont even hit me till im half way though a video that this is what she done.  I dont know why after 5 years i still cant drop this and let my self be happy now that everything is great. We dont fight, for once i get along with her familly, we now have 3 kids, hell she is devoted to me more then any man could hope for. I dont know what to do anymore but maybe just getting it out there will help

Tags: Divorce; Friend; Kids; Video;

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Friday, May 13, 2016 1:27 AM

you should be happy but at the same time don't trust completely

Friday, May 13, 2016 4:28 AM

I'm assuming she didn't realize what she really wanted at the time but found out how dangerous things can get when you chose the wrong man. She's safe with you and she appreciate you more for it

Friday, May 13, 2016 2:22 PM

  I had a friend go through  something similar. You need to talk to her and tell her that your still in pain for what she did. It sounds like she never apologized to  you. Why would you take a women back who left without a word and spoke evil things about you. She only came back because she had no where to go. She was pressured by her family. Come on man you know better. My friend was so hurt that he watched cheating porn. After the pleasure he was dieing  inside. He loved her more then himself. He one day just got up and left. Disappeared  for 6 months. When he came back he knew what he wanted.  He is married to a beautiful  Hispanic  chic now and is happy. The ex is still alone wishing  she never would have cheated. They would of made it if only they spoke about it instead of ignoring  it. Why did she do what she did. If you don't know your relationship  is doomed. She needs to apologize  if she didn't.

Friday, May 13, 2016 3:43 PM

Firsf of all I think you need help bro and second you really really need professional help. Wake up son!!... what part of shebang him with sex and you with a gun. If she could do it once she'll do it again and don#t take my word for the sake of your own bads. Maybe the second time will snap you back to reality maybe?. I'm sure the reason is because she is the only slut left in your world that you need to wake up from. wake up!!!

Friday, May 13, 2016 6:33 PM

You all are a family and it's great that you're willing to to work it out. After 5 years it seems as though you have. Don't be worried that you can't drop it, you're just being cautious which in my opinion is OK. My advice: Keep your guard up brother and enjoy and take full advantage of the opportunity of being a father to your children...they're what matter the most. Even if you and her don't make it your children will always be there. 

Saturday, May 14, 2016 2:59 PM

Amazing story.  I am glad it had a happy ending.  Do you think your wife would ever do this again to you? Do you trust her 100 percent?

Monday, May 16, 2016 3:50 AM

Your wife is a piece of shit. You had a kid, so it makes it tough to wipe the shit away. Now you have 3 kids, it is even harder. You are having problems dealing with your feelings because you know that she is a worthless piece of shit, and you are married to her. You cannot love her, you cannot respect her, yet she is your wife and her character reflects on you. Everyone around you knows what she did and that you sucked it up and took her back. They all question your judgement. They can't respect your wife, or even like her, so they can't really respect you either. There is something wrong with you, they know it, you know it, and your wife depends on it. 

Thursday, May 26, 2016 9:49 PM

She's treating you like a mug mate she left you for that guy then realised he isn't about anything and the only reason she got back with you is because she would have lost custody because he was still using so then decided to go back to you but she doesn't love you & definitely don't trust her she's a slut and proved that in her actions divorce her and get custody of your son and go find someone who will treat you right 

Saturday, May 28, 2016 1:04 PM

According to you, everything is great now. But even though it has been a while, my advice is to still keep a close eye on her in the event it happens again. But I think you're in the clear now.


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