Lets start off, I knew K through my ex. At that point I was dating B & K was dating someone else, my relationship with B ended not long later (B cheated). Moving forward I was 16 (I'm 17 now). K was 20. He liked me he even spent a huge amount on my Birthday for a staycation, but I really did not have feelings for him. I made it clear to him, he kept trying. One night he sent me home after the staycation. He asked me again if I wanted to be with him, I said no. I got angry with him, I told him not to force feelings? He shouted me if I am using his money, in anger I said yes & hit him. He left to drive home, we stopped contact I started dating someone else. Fast forward the relationship with this person, well did not last. Time passes I contacted K again, he wasn't in any relationship. We met & things like that. We got together this time, he told me about his ex how she cheated (I should have saw this red flag) he was in the Air - Force, busy with work all this. That night was our one month monthsary he got drunk at a club, drunk called me. I couldn't bring him home, for reasons. Took him took a staircase let him sleep there. I stayed up that whole night, curious? I opened his phone, saw texts from this girl called Charmine. Mind you she was 14!!!! He said I Love you her, met up (without even telling me) saying they were just friends. Found her Insta & Guess what. She posted a picture of flowers and teddy bear he commented a winky face. This douchebag kept telling me he couldn't like my posts(when I asked) due to him saying he was busy with work. Needles to say, his friends accused me as well. Of " faking " as his Girlfriend. I had to send screenshots photos, story goes on. I ask about his ex " YY " turns out " not only she didn't cheat on him, he abused her as well. Jerk.