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Fiancé wasn't honest

My girlfriend cheated on me

Thursday, July 21, 2016 10:08 AM by Joboo Rating: +20|-5

First of all she says it wasn't cheating because we weren't engaged yet. I put this out here the other day but never saw it posted. I'll try again. My girlfriend held out on sex with me until we had been together 3months. I was surprised but really liked her and it made me desire her more in every way. Once we did have sex it was great but I noticed she was much "looser" down there than any of the girls I've been with. I blew it off as genetics. All goes well for the next six months except she was very stingy with sex, all else was great. She claimed she wasn't brought up that way and she wasn't comfortable with extramarital sex but she really desired it. We end up engaged and the night we did was amazing, we were in the bed for hours, we had never done that. Then there was no sex, it was all about the wedding and plans and hopes and dreams, for almost 12 weeks. I finally was at my limit and after a get together i let loose, I had been drinking and spoke a lot more openly than I normally would. She acted surprised and seemed to think that we had agreed to no sex until we were married. I never agreed to that although I did remember a conversation that we had about the minimal sex we were having, in her mind she was explaining that we were stopping until then. She was upset and turned it into me being controlling if you can believe that. I became quite and later she suggested we go to my place and just talk. We went to my place and she screwed my brains out. Before it was love making, this time it was sex. As soon as we started I noticed a big difference in what used to be "loose", it wasn't anymore, I mean at all. I made several references during sex about how tight she was and she said nothing until after. She said she had been working out with her sisters squite o she would look great in her wedding dress. Bought it, hook line and sinker. To shorten a long story I found out that she had a fuck buddy when we started dating, she apparently didn't cut him off until we were engaged. I had good information and once I mentioned his name she owned up to it. She apparently felt that since we weren't engaged we weren't exclusive. My god, we were together everyday for almost nine months till I proposed. She went to HS with the guy, him being a few years ahead and her having a crush she acted on after she was out of HS and ran into him at a party she went on to explain. She fucked him that night for the first time. They went out a few times but he saw other girls and it never happened for them as a couple, but she never quit sleeping with him, said she couldn't say no to him. What should I do? I feel very used and I worry that if she did that when we dated why would I not think she would mislead me after we marry. What do I do, I can't even think about the obvious thing she desired from him. I don't have that, will she start up again. She swears once we were engaged she stopped seeing him. Do I call it off?

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Friday, July 22, 2016 9:24 PM

YES BREAK IT OFF. FIRST GET YOUR NUT SACK BACK.  She clearly  controls you and manipulatest you. Trust me she fucked him before and after you said lets  get married. She lies and you can't  trust a lier. She said she couldn't  fuck you for x y z reasons but in fact she didn't  because  she was fucking the other guy. NO religious  reason and/ or she wasn't  brought  up that way. She played you and you were  dumb to believe it. Think hard. She can say no to you but not to him. Then gave you petty  sex after you begged. She was waiting  for the guy to say let's  be in a relationship  so she could  go to her first  choice   ( not you ) Other guy  knows you hoe better and wouldn't  even dream of marriage  with that bitch. What more do you need. Fuck what you spent on the wedding you marriage  will be a sham.

Saturday, July 23, 2016 10:17 AM

She was lying to you by ommission. Still a lie. No decent woman would lie to a man that she wanted to have a relationship with. You can't trust her, you will never be able to trust her. If you marry her, you will regret it for the rest of your life. Marriage is a three legged race, it demands total committment and two people cooperating not competing, never lying. She is not fit to be a wife, worse she is a terrible role model and would make a horrible mother. Do you want to work your ass off for a cheater and fucked up kids? You will want to shoot yourself in 20 years! Cut the loose whore loose and move on. She made you wait for sex for 3 months because she was getting all she needed! CUNT! There is nothing she can say or do to make this right. 

Saturday, July 23, 2016 12:21 PM

Some women have men who they fuck and men whom they marry. You are the marry guy, not both. 

Saturday, July 23, 2016 4:39 PM

Bro back the fk off once a cheater always a cheater man to man bk off asap

Saturday, July 23, 2016 8:47 PM

   So while she was getting  fucked  you was sitting with hand on your dick. She didn't  care about your needs but hers was being taken care of. Why even ask what should I do. The bitch made you her bitch. Fuck her one day and tell her it's over. And don't fall for the tears.

Saturday, July 23, 2016 10:36 PM

Don't obsess about the sex.  Concentrate of the fact that your "girlfriend" is totally dishonest with you.  Think about it...she tells you no sex in the first three months while she's out scrogging some other dude's brains out.  And still scrogging him while she was having sex with you.  She has a warped sense of reality to think she wasn't cheating while you were together.  I see no hope for this one dude.  Cut your losses, kick her to the curb, and get yourself checked.

Saturday, August 13, 2016 6:21 PM

Have to agree with ALF. Yeah, she didn't bone you enough - that sucks. But how about the fact that she completely lied to you about her morals as a person? She made you believe she had a stigma about sex before marriage all while she was cheating on you on the side? No, no, no. Break it off. Easier said than done, but you deserve better than marrying someone who's already screwed you over.

Sunday, April 3, 2022 8:10 PM
Break it off!!! that's BULLSHIT that since we weren't engaged we weren't exclusive. My friend walk away. I know she's hot and goodd in bed, but once a cheater always a cheater. Its better you find out now. Take the pain now! You deserve better!

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