Fall 2009. My wife and I are arguing and I vent my frustrations on Facebook. Within an hour a friend of mine sends me a private message telling me to call him. So I do and he informs me that my wife and another friend of mine had been fooling around. I confront this other friend and he denies it. I then confront my wife and the very first words out of her mouth was, after I told her that I already confronted him, was, "what did he say?" It was at that moment that I knew it was true, but I ignored it. 

Summer 2012. My wife and I separate. I move in with a friend and get a second job as a part-time cook at a bar just to help make ends meet. As my shift ended, I sat at the bar to have a drink. A friend of mine approached me and told me that my wife was fooling around with a coworker of hers. I was a little confused at the moment because we were separated, but when we separated we both made the agreement that we wouldn't see anyone else. So I drove to her house (our house) and confronted her. She denied it, of course. In October of of 2012, we agreed to get back together.

September 2014. Suspecting that my wife did cheat on me in 2009 and 2012, I would, from time to time, Google her name just to see if anything would come up. So one day I decided to rephrase my search, and decided to do an image search. Low and behold, the third image was my wife performing oral sex on a guy. My heart dropped. I showed her the picture and to my surprise, she denied that it was her. But a day later she did admit that it was her with her coworker. She the confessed that she had slept with him in July and August, and one last time in December, after we got back together when she was supposed to be at a doctors appointment. She also confessed to sleeping with my friend twice back in 2009.

I do suspect that there may be other times that she cheated, but if she did, she won't tell me. What's the point? I already know she's cheated.

We are still married, but I don't trust her and I resent the hell out of her.