Come on ladies lets be for real when it comes to cheating Husband, the challenge is on! ask him how many Affairs he had?  ask him how many friends marriages he broke up?  ask him does he still live behind his back ?  If you have a man in your life who helps bring balance to your world,  I'm so glad your guy brings you balance at this time of your life.  How ironic, because 3 years ago, I was slightly tested by God, the thing was that I was push-off- balance by man kind.  But happy to say, I wasn't the one that was being tested back then.  It was two other individuals and they both failed! One of them I have not seen since the day she walked out on me, but clearly the other (the male), the other one, did me a huge, bigtime, favor... which in fact, opened my eyes to a new kind of person, that was placed on this Earth. A person that would do harm to herself, close friends, family members, and especially to others from her past.  Now mind you, it also opened my eyes to this supposedly close friend!  like my elders once said, "How quickly that something can be given to someone (with love), then  how fast it can be taken away with a blink of an eye.  now to his significant other .. who isn't perfect but he's perfect for you. keep telling yourself that and make sure he Pats you on the back.  who works hard breaking relationships up, breaking your heart, and pissing off another individuals, him not knowing the ripple effect.  Ask him to stop this ripple? he got in so deep.. he wouldn't know where to start or finish, but he could do what he does best ...walk out like a coward!!  would you laugh, I think he found out, you laugh all over the bank, that way you don't spend no money. your best friend?  I don't know what world you come from buddy, best friends don't do that to each other and sometimes your only friend, who you want to grow old with who you are thankful for and truly adore, will be afraid that he's really praying hard that you will never find out.. open your eyes women!.. he'll get slapped  with Karma!  my status: I first felt betrayed, abandoned, foolish, but then knowing who he is and knowing that I was going to do business with him, wow, wow, and not even telling me?