Heartbroken

My girlfriend cheated on me

Thursday, May 12, 2016 12:01 AM by Kelly Rating: +27|-13

I am in a same sex relationship and my gf of a few months had admitted to me that she had cheated on me a few times with a guy. Only a couple of people knew that we were together as we weren't ready to come out, we live in a small town with alot of judgemental people. I felt very used but so hurt that I cried myself to sleep for weeks. I felt like this was my fault that this happend as i wan't ready to "sleep" with her. I don't know if I can forgive her or just move on....

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Thursday, May 12, 2016 4:10 AM

Julius

I will admit that I'm against the whole same sex thing but I won't judge you. Listen her cheating is not your fault. If you two had an understanding that you were together as a couple she should have respected it. Sex or no sex. My concern is that if she is with a guy it means she is intrested and always will be. Is she gay, bisexual or straight. Now people hate labels but when I go food shopping I don't pick up a can with a label on it. I want to know what I'm going to eat. Labels are important. You need to know what your getting into when it comes to relationship. If she is into men she will always have that desire to be with one. Find out what she expects in the future. Now it's your choice wether you want to forgive or not. We can't advice on what you want. But I will tell you you Don't owe her anything and you not giving it up is no excuse for her to cheat.

Thursday, May 12, 2016 4:47 AM

It's a horrible thing that she cheated. The good thing is that she admitted it to you. I would wonder why though. Did you have suspicions, was she going to be exposed by someone, or did she feel remorse? Forgiveness is your choice, so I don't have anything to say about that. If I was in shoes I would move on because the relationship wasn't that long. If she could do this to you so early on, I fear for the future. I would also want to know everything about the affair, though that might be pain shopping. If I knew everything it would help me decide to stay or go.

Thursday, May 12, 2016 9:55 AM

Guest

maybe she cheated to prove to people she or you weren't lesbians. living in a small town can be a bitch. if I were you find out all the reasons first. don't just give up on her. love between two woman is a beautiful thing and im sure so hard to find in a small town.

Friday, May 13, 2016 1:32 AM

Desired

i wish my girlfriend and i had that chance. unfortunately she's in california and im in texas.

Thursday, June 30, 2016 10:01 PM

Guest

Well, your girlfriend isn't as in to you as you are into her. So, fuck the same sex shit. That has nothing to do with it. This person doesn't care about you, and you should find a lovely lady that will.

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