Your bf had a baby by a ho and he knows that. That's why he says he's only around for the baby. You are a ho and that's how he has seen you from the very beginning. You cheated on your ex bf with him. Think about it. You think your cheating but your not. Your bf doesn't give a shit. He knows your a ho. But he's not gonna take care of someone else's baby

Maybe I am just a hoe. I don't know if I could ever be faithful after being cheated on by different men. Why does my bf threaten me and get angry if he knows I'm a hoe? I have left before, he chased me down to bring me back home...why is that?

Because your a ho. I get what your saying as a female. But you have to understand the mindividual of a man. And bottom line is you do NOT treat a ho with respect. You don't get respect from the second you meet a guy and you have to change that. The best way to think is when your son looks at you what do you want him to see. How will you want women to treat your son. I would leave all the men if I was you. Go home to your mom for awhile 

It amazes me when a guy sleeps around he's a hero, but when a woman sleeps around she's a slut.  You got me once you said that your current bf threatens you.  That is no way to to treat any person let alone a woman.  There's no true love left in that relationship.  You should leave your current bf.  This kind of behavior by your bf should not be witnessed by your son.  Thinking that he will change will not happen.  You're not married to him, thank god.  Leave him, get child support (but don't count on it), go back to Alija since he seem like a good guy, based on what little you've said about him.  Worse come to worse, if you have no where to go, go back to your mother/father or other family memeber until you get back on your feet and able to support yourself and your child.  If you have a good relationship with your bf sister, I don't see why that can't continue........except you'll still be exposed to your current bf.   You might have to end that relationship if you leave him.   You and your son come first, not your current bf.   Make the smart, wise choice, trust your gut feelings.   Good luck.

To the "L"oser just above.  Time's have change.  Of course you sound like you're still in the stone age or even earlier the "HOMO" erectus.  I want you to call your mother a slut or a bitch and we'll see who is the bitch.

To the two bitch  above me☝. Peolpe  in the stone age had lest disease  unlike the two of yall.  So by telling women to have more respect for them self like they did back in the days is stone age then so be it. You modernized whores don't realize how stupid you sound. I'm stone age but your quick with the HOMO jokes. Are we not past that since your so "un-stoneage" like. Lmao. To the hoe above, if you knew how to read you would of realized that I was against  it even with a man doing it. But I see what happens  you two are whores sleeping  around and I touched a nerve. I showed my mother these comments here is her response. Listen a respectable  women would not have had responded  or answered  in this manner. They would have told the young lady to be the best mom she could be and not bounce from man to man. I don't  think there mother would agree with there mind set. 

TRANSLATION BITCH.

  Your dumb, foolish and uneducated. Love my mom. Happy mothers day mom. 

You whose can learn from here. 

   You can tell  the girls making the comments are teenabers especially  the one capitalizing the "L" in loser.  No grown women speak this way. The other girl didn't  even bother to read or understand  what the guy was saying.  Stop living this way  and be honest  with your self and the others. People can do crazy things when being betrayed. You deserve better and even though I may agree with what some of the guys here say I'm not judging  you. Be careful.

     Why are we responding to two dumb cunts. Back to the story. Listen sweety men respond with what they see. If you act trashy you will get trashy  response  from the. The guys here may be harsh gut they are only telling you how guys think. Change your view on life and change how you view yourself. Don't go by your feelings ( like the dumb cunt above me said ) it can steer you to the wrong path. Use your logic. Your son is what you should be worrying  about. Don't leave one relationship  to another. Find yourself  first.

Love the comments. .all of them. I agree most with the ones that say I should find myself. Nothing else makes sense. I am a hoe for cheating but hey...I have seriously only slept with 5 men total, gave 3 out of those head as well. I feel like I'm only using current bf because I'm not emotionally there. I want true happiness, I believe lies within me. We'll see what happens, stay tuned.

I have opened up to him.  He wants us to swing. I don't think I could be into that. It scares me. Especially if they were complete strangers. I still Love Alijah, we're connected more now. I don't think I could stay in my current relationship just because we have a baby together.