There was no catagory for what I'm writing about, so I just picked one. 

My partner & I have been together for over 6 years this time. I say 'this time' because we have crossed paths multiple times since 1982. Six years ago, I decided to give it a try when he asked. He & his ex wife have been divorced for over 12 years. They still text, call, & act like they are still married, while I'm not "allowed" to speak to my exes. And, the slut that he had cheate on his ex with- he still considers her to be his best friend.... He has even risked his job for that whore. He is also risking our relationship for both of them. I get very angry when they call in the middle of the night or when we are out on a date. He has lied to me telling me he don't talk to them! Then when he gets caught, he lies about that too. Even though I see the texts. 

I have a feeling that I'm only there as a meal ticket. I pay all the bills- he blows his money. What do I do?