I cheated..now what?

I cheated on my boyfriend

Sunday, May 15, 2016 10:34 AM by ungrateful_bitch Rating: +10|-15

I have been in a relationship for 1 year and 3 months and i am only 19 years old.We dont live in the same city and every weekend i have to travel for 4 hours to see him.We were very very happy together until a really really hot guy started hitting on me.He is a student and lives very close to me.Although he knows i am in a relationship we had sex and he seems to want this to happen regularly.Now that im visiting my bf i feel so bad and i want to tell him but i dont want to hurt him.Also i dont want to lose him but it is so hard for me to be in a serious and long distance relationship.I want to go out meet new people and places but i love him so so much.It breaks my heart to let him go.I think i will regret it if i break up with him but i have lying to him this way.What should i do?I have to live far away from him for another 4 years.Have i completely ruined it?My hands are shaking and i feel guilty.I had absolutely no reason to cheat.But he is so hot...Anyway can i get replies on what i should do next?

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Comments

Sunday, May 15, 2016 12:39 PM

Guest

What a stupid slu't you are. Just tell him and let him leave you . No one wants a relationship with a cheater

Sunday, May 15, 2016 2:02 PM

Guest

This exact thing just happened to me. Long distance relationships are so much harder than you think. I was with my Bf for a year and he stopped talking to me as much and stopped making me feel attractive. I met someone at school who made me feel good and it happened. I loved my boyfriend too and after it happened I realized it more. I think it's better to tell him sooner because it will hurt more the longer you wait. And you defiantly should tell him. He may breakup with you, but you will feel horrible otherwise.

Monday, May 16, 2016 3:28 AM

Guest

You are young, you are not married, you cheated on your boyfriend. End of story, end of relationhsip. Even if you don't tell him you are a cheater, you will always know what you are. You are selfish, you lack self control, and you don't really love your boyfriend. You have thrown away your self respect and honor, set your boyfriend free. You are not a good person.

Monday, May 16, 2016 2:27 PM

Guest

you don't love your long distance bf at all you just like him, if you loved him you wouldn't cheat on him you stupid slut

Monday, May 16, 2016 2:42 PM

Guest

Funny thing is its usually the people who say they would never cheat that end up cheating. I think saying you will NEVER cheat is a long shot. Cheating comes in all kinds of forms not just in the act of sex

Wednesday, May 18, 2016 12:05 AM

Guest

Go with the"hot guy" your boyfriend deserves someone special who values him and the relationship

Friday, May 20, 2016 6:32 AM

Guest

Here is a real suggestion. Now I say ral because being the victim of the same nonsense I can give you a very good answer. Your 19, you live 4 hours apart, you think being hot is more important than commitment. Tell your boyfriend you'll feel better. Then tell him this. I'm sorry that I let my own low self-esteem ruin our relationship. If he breaks up with you then he does if he forgives then you your lucky. You can't handle a long term committed relationship. Your in college don't get in a serious relationship till after college. Your still immature and think being hot is really the most important thing (you said it several times). Yes your a cheater move on. No contact with the d-bag you slept with either he doesn't have any of your best interests in mind. How do I know you ask? He fucked you even after you told him you were in a relationship.

Saturday, May 21, 2016 10:19 AM

Guest

Be honest with yourself and with him. Tell your boyfriend how you feel about the distance and your actions that you have done with this other guy. A true relationship is built on honesty and trust. If he wants to stay and you do, then work it out. You cheated only based on this other guys looks and of that is all it takes, what will stop you from doing the same with every "hot guy" you see. If you want to be in a relationship you have some growing up to do and doing what's right is the place to start. I hope that you have a great day and that all goes well for you in the future.

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