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I cheated on my girlfriend

Monday, July 10, 2017 2:31 AM by Guest Rating: +43|-64

I have been dating my girlfriend for about a year and a half. our relationship has been rocky since last year, our downs are very down and our highs are very high. 

 

I decided to go to a fair, which she was mad at me for going to for her own selfish reasons. i was with my sister and a few of her friends. one of her friends was this girl,  who was super outgoing and attractive. we talked a tiny bit, but we didn't flirt or anything. 

 

a couple weeks later, i asked my sister for her number. we started talking, not really flirting, but i did tell her i had an innocent crush on her at this fair. she told me that she thought i was cute and was mad that i had a girlfriend. i told her that i wanted to take her out in the future and then told her about some of the downs in my relationship.

 

after that, my girlfriend read the texts. there wasn't many, this girl and i only talked for a couple days. my girlfriend freaked out and screamed at me and grabbed my arm badly but by the end of the day, we decided to stay together. however, she continues to tell me how i'm a cheater and how she'll never trust me again. 

 

i love my girlfriend, but i can't shake the feelings i get from this other girl. we aren't talking now. my girlfriend refuses to tell anyone about our relationship and will not hold my hand or hug me in public whatsoever, if i try to, she yells at me and pulls away. this new girl told me that she would hold my hand and that she wants to hang out with me. 

 

i feel guilty for what i did, but i do not believe that what i really did was cheating to the point of getting screamed at and grabbed. i did not have feelings initial for this girl. 

 

 

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Friday, June 15, 2018 1:40 AM
Guest

I don't know why you are still with your gf if you want to be with another girl.

Do you really in love with your gf?

 
Sunday, June 16, 2019 12:40 PM
Guest

Matt?

 
Tuesday, December 28, 2021 8:47 AM
Guest
Make the switch dude!!
 
Sunday, February 6, 2022 3:05 PM
Guest
I was in a relationship once that wasnt quite like this, but it has it's simularities. The reason you cant break up with yiur girlfriend is because you have an emotional attachment to her (which my guess is you haven't been the most sexually active before your current relationship). My advice... it's going to hurt, but you BETTER pull away from your current relationship now. There will come a day when she will be the one cheating and she will make YOU carry her guilt by saying that YOU were at fault.
 
Wednesday, February 9, 2022 10:26 AM
Guest
If you're asking another girl for her phone number, that's how all relationships start....no? Anything you hide from the other person you're in a relationship with is considered cheating. The one question you should ask yourself is... Would it be okay if they did this to you? Don't try and justify it or change it to fit your narrative either like "oh it's cool if they have opposite-sex friends" Would you have asked for her number if your girlfriend was standing there next to you? That's where your answer is to if it's cheating or not? Would it be cool if another guy asked for her number right in front of you? What if she played it down and made you feel insecure and jealous about it? No one gets another person's number unless they are interested in them. Stop with the foolish games, it's not cool. The lies you tell yourself are just as bad as the lies you tell others. Cheating is just being selfish. You can't have everything. Cheating is always a choice. Micro cheating (getting phone numbers, flirting, being "just friends") is how all of it starts. Affairs don't start in bedrooms, they start with conversations, lying by omission (I had lunch with my co-workers/old friend from school... it was fun...oops it was really just me and this attractive fun person that totally adores me and I'm not going to tell you that because I know it would hurt you, so I'm selfishly going to keep this to myself and keep you in the dark about it because I selfishly enjoy it and I want to keep you in my life too) That's not how it works. That's being dishonest and you wouldn't want them to do that to you.
 

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