i tricked the married man, be his friend and wormed into his psyche eg. Praise him, tell him happy tales, go for long walks, meet secretively outside and even at our homes sneaking lay and enjoying the dare, etc loved and enjoyed the extras.  he was like a charmed 14 year old, only need to phone or text and instead of talking, I self deliver to him at his home when his wife is out of town.  I even encouraged him to come to my house when I know my husband is dead tired after shift work at the hospital and is starting to feel run down!  I use my charming young voice every time on the phone, chat on mobile and email etc, always lending an attentive ear, commend him for everything he does etcetera.  When his wife found out, I told him to get rid of the problem .  I lied about what she told me (she was very polite and kind to say thank you but NO more!) but told him she was very upset and I fear her.  He was so bewitched by me he said to take an AVO against her!  I love cheating on my husband and other women's cheating husbands!