First you have to decide if you want to be married or if you want to be an old slut who occasionally gets fucked by some guy. This other guy just wants to fuck you because you are married and easy.  If you want to be married and you feel there is something lacking: TALK TO YOUR HUSBAND ABOUT IT! If that doesn't work, get used to it or get a divorce! Maybe you are bored because you don't have kids? No marriage can go on as a purely romantic relationship forever - a family is the natural evolution of a marriage. If you have kids, don't cheat on them! 

   You already  made up your mind by accepting  the guys advances.  Go ahead and destroy  your life with a boy who only views you as his next piece of  ass. Women Always fall in love with the little  moments not realizing  the one who truly   loves her always works for the big moments that last a life time. If you  can't be with someone  who leaves for long periods  at a time then leave him so he can  be happy with someone who can

"The new guy knows I have someone but is willing to wait until I leave him." How would you know that unless you have walked down a few steps intio cheating. You have, at the least, mentally cheated while waiting to see if you are goingb to finish it with physical cheating. GFlad you are not my wife. You clearly left out a lot in your story.

PS You, most likely, are just going to be another notch on the new guys belt.

you will cross the line  and once you do you will  be a slut and whore  and there will be other men that you will let fuck you.   you are a whore in the making

Oh my goodness people are being really aggressive and unnecessarily vulgar.  I am asuming you are struggling and you have posted this in search for advice not insults.  It is hard having a partner away but you need to remember its hard for your partner too. If you are unhappy you should consider leaving him but don't do it on the promise of this other guy. It might not last. If what you want is permission to cheat without feeling guilty it wont be easy,  people take it personally and angrily as you can see. Maybe you and your husband could come. to an agreement while he is away, but remember it goes two ways.  Just imagine all the different outcomes and try and workout how you would feel if the roles were reversed.  Its ok to have a crush, its actually kind of fun but taking it anywhere else is a whole new ball game. Goodluck and just try to be fare but remember. It is your life after all 

hoebucket problems... death do us part, but apparently 2 months at a time is the same thing. i am glad i read these stories, the main reason why i will never, ever, get married.

Honey, go get him. I've been cheating on my husband for the past 5 months with much younger men I meet at work or on the town. I'm 43 years old and living the dream with younger partners. The sex has never been better. Love swallowing and giving head.

Of course it's easy to fall in love with some new, cute guy who compliments you, pays attention to you, looks good, smells good, has a cute haircut, but that's because you don't have to see the hair on his back, or the shit stains in his underwear, or how he farts for tenminutes in the morning before he gets out of bed, or doesn't clip his toenails and they dig into your shins in bed. A new guy doesn't do those things because he is on his best behavior and HE IS TRYING TO WIN YOUR HEART/MIND/BODY. But once he catches you, it'll only be a short while before HE starts to relax and he, too, will lose his romantic edge and just become...himself.  Here is a very powerful piece of advice for you:  When you're wearing rose-colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags!

Forget this kid, and go back and work on your marriage. Insist on a date night once a wekk where you go out just like when you were a new couple, and work on that marriage. You are young, and you can fix it. Now do it!!

All of the insecure eunuchs commenting and calling her names deserve to be cheated on. You guys are oppressive pigs who want to shame and control women's sexuality and not defend any kind of "morality".
I doubt any of you call men "sluts" for cheating, or whores... for having a sexual drive just like you eunuchs. A "slut" is a slut for someone who is promiscuous, the woman never said she was promiscuous or that she intends to be - having sex with just another guy isn't promiscuity lol. And whores are people who sell sexual services for money, she never once said she wants to work like that.