o sad,my husband died unexpectedly (brain aneurism) 2 months after his death I found he was having a long term affair (2 years).I spoke to his woman, who came to his memorial and our home afterwards. She acts entitled and finds nothing wrong with her actions, she is from another country, Turkey, I'm not knocking it, just maybe in her culture affairs are OK. This could be the only reason, she feels that it is acceptable to attend his memorial. My husband paid for her apartment, cell phones for her and her daughters...How do I recover from this hell? His death was hard enough, his affair is way harder.I don't know why he would do this to me and our son, we have suffered so much...anyone have the same experience