Monday, January 25, 2016 3:09 PM by Guest
I found out four months ago my wife of 11 years had been sleeping with her personal traiiner for six months. I had suspected for several months and finally went into her cellphone. I found over a years worth of graphic texts and face book messages. My heart broke and my mind snapped. I was diagnosed with Acute Stress Disorder and underwent treatment so I would not end up with PTSD. We have two children together and my wife was friends with her trainer's girlfriend. They had sex in our house and she invited me to work out with his group training. She had our daughter come to some of the work out sessions so I have the image of him playing with my daughter. We seperated for a few months and are now living together and going to couseling. Is it it possible to forgive such betrayal and disrespect. I still love her but do not think I will ever trust her again. So confused. She says she still loves me but only stopped seeing him after I told his girlfriend and he broke things off. Is my marriage doomed?
Game over. I bet if that other guy was still available she would do it again. Nobody deserves to get cheated . Do yourself a favor and dump her ass.
If it were once under come circustances like they were drunk and she is very sorry. perhaps you could live with that idea. but it was on a constant basis and more over she invited you to his group making you pay him. this is a total disrespect man. Take her things and throw away. what kind of things can you counsel with her??
U can force it to work.. But you will always wonder if its going on, because she has given away what was supposed to be just for you and that hurts a man deep.you want to do right for your kids but they will see the issues of a marriage trying to get pat infidelity.. And you will beat yourself up asking what does he have that I don't. Am I. Not enough for her. Does he please her better then I can.. Been my exp that if they will stray 1 time.. They will for sure not have a problem doing it again, if you love being and feeling insecure and worried about it then stay with her. If you want a life not worrying all the time then leave her shed not worth it
Nah... Sorry bro ... Your marriages over ... Move on !!!
find another woman... This woman's not worth it.... She's using you hook line and sinker... Don't give her infidelity excuses ... Any betrayal shows she's lost respect for U...? You'll never be enough for her, and only will be good for her for what she can get from you....
If you had kept your nosey self out of her phone you wouldn't be in this position. Blame yourself. You ruined your own happiness.
Leave the dirty bitch. You don't need to be with someone who can't keep her legs closed when in the company of other men
You can do a lot better than this slut!
No, your marriage isn't doomed... if she is willing to come and live with you again and to go to counseling you have hope. You are not doomed.... it can be forgiven but it takes time. Love is a choice.... if you choose to love your wife despite what has happen... there is hope. Your wife coming back and choosing to go to counseling with you shows that there is hope.... so don't give up on it.
No dude it is not, do not make that mistake, a woman who has no guilt of cheating will always cheat. She even took your daughter there, don't give her another chance.
Your wife is a bad person. She is a bad wife and a worse mother. Get a divorce and try to get custody of your daughter. Your wife is a terrible role model for your daughter.
You stupid fucking beta. Counseling? Some faggot counselor isn't going to fix your problem, know what will? a 45. Shoot him in the stomach and watch him bleed out, wailing in pain. Piss on his corpse and then put a bullet in the bitches head. If you had some balls you'd torture kill the cock that was fucking her. Don't bend over like bitch, get even. Pussy.
Sorry but she's a whore.. its over!
I understand you feel that way as you have been together for so many years. No matter yhe amount of you have counselling, her affair will always play in the back of your mind, and whatever she does you will always question if she will do it again. Do you still love her because you're comfortable and afraid to move on? What if she does it again? What if you're missing out on someone who will truly adore and cherish you? You don't want to force your marriage. It will be hard on your kid but sooner the better. My Dad had an affair but my Mom forgave him. He did it again and again, only stayed for my sake. It was only till he met someone that he moved out and left my mum. She finally found love someone who truly deserve's her. If she can do it so can you. Put yourself first.
Your wife crossed the line she is a whore and a slut.. I would guess the Trainer told his friends that he was fucking a married whore. she may have and if not will have other men fuck her