I met my future wife at work. She was smart, beautiful, funny, and our conversations just flowed. We both became flirtatious, and I finally gave her my number and asked her out after work. She said she was flattered, but she was married! I apologized and said I didn't know(she never once mentioned him). She said he was "away". I assumed he was in the military, but turns out he was in prison for drug charges! So we continue talking at work, and eventually we went out for drinks after work one night. We ended up kissing before parting ways. Some time goes by, and we're falling in love. Our relationship takes off and she becomes pregnant with our daughter. She informs her incarcerated husband of everything, and they divorce. We buy a house, have a baby, she says this is the life she wanted, that she could never have with her ex. A while later the ex gets out of prison. She returns some things to him, and apparently still has feelings for him. She "needs time" to figure things out" and goes to stay with her mom. Turns out she was hanging out with the ex. I'm devastated and beg for her back. She comes back and we have another child, get married, everything seems fine. 2 years into our marriage, I'm working nights, I'm tired, miserable at times, but doing everything in my power to contribute and provide for our family. I notice a change in my wife's behavior. Always tapping away on her phone, taking her phone everywhere she goes. Curiosity gets the best of me, so after a week of trying to crack her complicated password on her phone, I get in. There I see Facebook messages back and forth between her and a co worker. She had sent a pic of her in the tub, to which he responded how he wishes he was under the bubbles with her, and how he can't stop thinking about being between her legs..how she responded to every lick. I'm not perfect, but this guy is older, fat, bald..not typically her type. My heart hits the floor. I confront her and her first response was "what did you think was going to happen?" Really?!?! I left to stay with my brother for a few days to cool off. She calls and texts saying she wants me back, and it was the worst mistake she ever made. It's been 2 years since I came back, and not a day has gone by where I haven't thought about it. I made her pay for it over and over. Now she's done, saying she can't be with me because I "live in the past" and can't let things go. I hate for things to fall apart, because of the kids, but I'm realizing now I should have left 2 years ago when I first found out..