I stumbled upon flirty texts between her and a work associate. My suspicions were aroused so I dug through email where I was lucky to find date, time, and location of a lunch meeting. I borrowed a friends car and drove to the location and parked where I could watch her enter the restaurant. I waited about 10 minutes then walked inside. I saw where they were sitting and I walked over. My wife's back was to the door so she didn't see me coming and this guy wouldn't recognize me because he had never seen me before...nor I him. I pulled out an empty chair and sat down. I began the conversation by extending my hand to him. Introducing myself I sternly asked, "How long have you been trying to fuck my wife?" Before he could answer I grabbed my wife's hand and shoved it in his face and asked, "You do see the ring on her finger, right asshole?" They both went into freakout mode and said they were there on business. I asked them explain the texts and emails I had found. They were both speechless. I then promised him that I would clean his clock if he ever contacted my wife again and I told my wife to get off her ass and onto her feet because she was coming with me. The whole ordeal took about 5 minutes. Once we were outside I chewed her ass and told her to get back to work and I would deal with her later. Once we both got home that evening we had a huge fight where she did alot of groveling and apologizing. She swore that she never cheated on me with him or anyone else. After that I began treating her like shit because I didn't trust her. In bed I started fucking her like a tramp I'd picked up at the bar and not making love to her as the woman I loved. Then a funny thing happend. My wife became a completely different woman. With all this ill treatment she became a better more attentive wife. And as far as the sex goes she can't get enough of being treated like a slut. I do believe that all along she wanted to be treated this way and that's why she almost strayed. I don't think she cheated on me but I do think she would have if I hadn't found out. I still don't completely trust her and I don't know if I ever will. I know it sounds funny but I think her near infidelity actually improved our marriage.