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Should I confess to my husband or not?

I cheated on my husband

Monday, December 7, 2015 4:59 AM by Guest Rating: +316|-183

I really need some advise without being judged because my guilt is turning into depression and I really don't know what to do at this point.I cheated on my husband with our neighbor.

It all stems from a few months ago when my husband and I were fighting all the time over the fact that he was neglecting me and our son (11).

He was jobless at the time because he got fired from his last job.

Then the only things he was doing was hanging out with his friends,drinking beer,spending countless times on his phone and so on.

He would get home drunk at very late hours sometimes and would wake us up and he even hit me a couple of times.

I tried talking to him many times,even started looking for a job for him because he wasn't even bothered to do that when he clearly should have instead of doing what he was doing.

One night I went out on the balcony to smoke and just ponder my life and everything so my neighbor just happened to be on his balcony as well.

We greeted each other and eventually indulged in a nice conversation.

At one point he was complaining about how noisy my husband and I were but then he said he was joking.

He was/is 24(11 years younger than me and 16 years younger than my husband).That night just before we were both going to go back inside he complimented me.

He said I looked sexy.At that time my heart was melting and obviously I was very well surprised.He was/is a very handsome gentleman.It was the first time I'd been complimented in a long time because all I'd been getting lately were insults and accusations courtesy of my husband.

It all happened the following day.After I took the kid to daycare he met me again,this time at my door.

I was carrying some bags so he offered to help me.I said there was no need but he still helped me.He didn't waste any time complimenting me again.We ended up kissing and I honestly tried turning him down but there was a spark so none of us could resist the temptation.

We didn't have sex because I told him my husband could have gotten home earlier so instead he ate me out and then I gave him a blowjob.

He came in my mouth and when he ate me out I had an orgasm-something I hadn't had in a long time for obvious reasons.

Ever since that day I've been feeling guilty.Now my husband has a new job and I've been avoiding our neighbor and he's not a jerk he won't tell my husband but I still feel guilty because I know I'm not a slut.

I don't know what I was thinking and quite frankly as bad as my husband was he was always faithful.Should I tell him or should I not?

Tags: Blowjob; Neighbor; Orgasm;

Thank you for voting.


Monday, December 7, 2015 6:40 AM
I'm fair

keep it a secret. You were in need and your husband wasn't fulfilling those needs. Do your best to regain a normal relationship with the neighbor so hubby isn't suspicious. Hopefully things will go back to normal for your marriage, but if not you know where the neighbor lives

Monday, December 7, 2015 11:16 AM

You've teetered right on that fine line of deserving more from a man who wasn't being the best husband to a cheating wife who stepped over the line. Ordinarily I side with the one who was cheated on but I would give you a pass this and only this time and say not tell him and never do it again....and oh by the way, make sure you let your hubby cum in your mouth next time too.

Monday, December 7, 2015 11:34 AM

You will shoot yourself in the foot. Keep your mouth shut and just wave hi to the neighbor. I would consider moving too if it could be arranged.

Monday, December 7, 2015 5:46 PM

It's kinda funny. "I'm not a slut" looool. You're a huge slut and this is why I don't date entitled westerners. Fucking married women is hot though. Just keep fucking the neighbour you know you love it and you're a whore, give in to your desires. 

Tuesday, December 8, 2015 6:46 AM

You cheating piece of shit. You deserve nothing if you don't say anything.

Tuesday, December 8, 2015 12:20 PM

My wife never smoked inside our home or when we were together as smoke really bothers me.  Like the young lady above my wife often went out on the patio for her evening smoke...we were living in a condo with a common back yard...each unit had a mostly private fence around their patio.  And like in the story, so it turns out, my wife and not just one but three single college students living next to us struck up a conversation.  And my wife confided after two weeks of strange behavior on her part when she finally confessed to three four things:  1) she let one of the boys go down on her bringing her to as she called it a "shattering orgasm"; 2) she went down on him not once but twice each time swallowing his sperm - something she never would do with me and she was very sorry for as she said she felt she had been missing out on something she thought she'd never enjoy;  3) she told me she wanted this young man to not only fuck her but she wanted me to know and give her permission to be fucked by him (my wife was then 49 years old while I was 54)...which after continued discussion I finally granted her permission to let him fuck her "bareback" and after they had actually had intercourse 4) she wanted to be "gang-fucked" by all of the men in the next-door unit.  I figured one she was unfaithful it didn't matter who or how many men had intercourse with her. 

This went on for almost 7 months with my wife either fucking/fucked by one or more or all of the college boys until one evening during our regular after-work cocktail hour my wife announced she was now 48 years of age.

We decided she would carry the baby to full-term and during her pregnancy her libido only increased and I never saw my wife but what she was carrying someone elses sperm in her ass, vagina and/or stomach.

On Thanksgiving Day my wife went into labor and she delivered a healthy baby boy...a very, very BLACK baby boy for one of the guys next to us (I had only met the one who had intercourse with my wife initially) and it was this black man's sperm who won out in my wife's womb.

That was six years ago.  Today my wife and I are no longer together for she has fallen in love with her black lover/father of her son and now lives with ALL of them...and, I am told, still fucks all of them, and in fact when she had her 53 birthday discovered she was pregnant again.

I divorced my wife with a judge agreeing I would not be responsible for child support or alimony.

My suggestion to your problem?  Simply if you've enjoyed the urge and have been sexually satisfied as well as mentall and morally satisfied, who should tell you to stop.  However, what are YOUR risks, i.e., pregnancy, STD, etc., as well as financial security short and long-term.

Wednesday, December 9, 2015 9:17 PM


Friday, December 11, 2015 8:16 AM

You talked about a lot of the things you did not like about your husband but you never said what it was that you liked about him. To me this says your mind is already made up but you came here to get shamed because of the guilt you feel. There is no shame in following your heart, as long as you do not keep it secret. You will not be able to walk away from this silently because your heart decided you were out before your head did. 


Next time look before you leap, but Congrats because you are only human




Tuesday, December 22, 2015 10:20 AM

Don't listen to these fools who call you a slut. You were emotionally and at least once physically abused. Affairs may not be ethically right but that is a long way from what you endured. I recommend not telling him about it if you want to keep your marriage together. You sound like a good person who has had some hard luck. Take care of yourself, you deserve it.

Monday, December 28, 2015 2:02 AM

This is why I will never get married. Wedding vow mean nothing anymore," For better or worse, sickness and health, till death do us part" is now "until things get tough, then run for the hills".

Wednesday, December 30, 2015 2:44 PM

First this isn't a judgment but you are a slut. That's just the cold hard truth. Secondly, yes you need to tell your husband because let's face it it's going to come out eventually. You're depressed and feeling guilty as you should, and that isn't going to just go away its going to get worse until eventually you can't function as a normal couple. Thirdly you need to leave your husband. If he put hands on you then he will again, anytime things get hard. Get out now and get your life together for your son. Your whole purpose in life is to raise and protect your son so stop crying about your personal life choices. When you tell your husband the truth do it in a public setting, at dinner or something because you can't predict how he is going to take that. He doesn't need the details just the fact you cheated, and don't apologize. You're not sorry for cheating you're sorry because you feel guilty. Let him hate you for it and he'll get over it easier if he thinks you're sorry he might cling on to hope so don't do that to him.

Wednesday, December 30, 2015 7:47 PM

Don't tell your husband if he is abusive, pray for forgiveness and believe  you have been for giving.  God gives second chances, yes you messed up and the reason you feel guilty is because of the vow u made so ask God forgiveness and start fresh, be faithful in your marriage. I'm in a similar relationship,  I felt like you but I can't give in to temptation  for fear of what you are going through. Confess your sins to God and only he can make it better, we are all human that's why he is there to pick us up when we fall and he don't hold our sins against us once we Confess our sins to him and ask for forgiveness.

Thursday, December 31, 2015 1:28 AM

OK to the fake Christian above  me. No she made a mistake and needs to go to her husband. Yes Jesus forgive but it also say' to confess your sin to one another james 5:16. so that you made be heal. If she cheated there is a deeper issue they both need to work on. If your getting beat call 911 and move on two wrong don't  make a right.  Your guilt  will only get worst. confess to him.

Sunday, January 10, 2016 12:29 AM

I understand how things like this happen. I have been married for quite a while. My husband has been unemployed for 7 years do to shear laziness. He's gotten fat. I don't find him sexually attractive. I do love him, but it's more like a friend kind of love than a romantic love. He has never bought me a Christmas, Birthday, anniversary, valentine's, or mother's day gift in all of our 20 years together. He's become comfortable. He stays up all night watching TV or playing video games. He sleeps all day in his recliner. He does absolutely nothing but take up space. We have sex and that's all we do together. My husband prefers oral sex over penetration. I enjoy it as well when I am receiving it. I used to enjoy giving it, but as he has gotten so fat, he doesn't get himself very clean in that area. He has a terrible odor and I gag from the smell. I had lunch with a friend not long ago and he told me how much he missed me and how attracted to me he was. We're both married. He has issues in his marriage as well. He's filed for a divorce 2 times, but not followed thru. Anyway, our lunch turned into going for a drive and talking. We ended up at the lake and made out. I gave him a blow job and he fingered me. I would have let him eat me out like he wanted to, but we were in a car in a public area. Much easier for him to put his stuff back in his pants then it would have been for me. I don't feel guilty at all for what happened. In fact, I would love to do it again somewhere where we can both be orally satisfied. I do not recommend telling your husband. All its going to do is hurt him terribly. It will most likely end badly for you. If you truly are not going to see the neighbor again then keep it to yourself and chock it up to a one time accident,mistake, or involuntary action. If it's going to become a habit, then get out of your marriage. I am consider leaving my marriage because I don't want to be a cheater. I do want love, happiness, and oral sex without the odor and gagging and with someone I am sexually attracted to. 

Sunday, January 17, 2016 5:17 AM

As a husband that was cheated on (I caught my wife in the act with my friend)  and as a man who is still trying to resolve my feelings,  the what's and the whys,  I can honestly say IF your story is unbiased and it all went down as you say then don't tell him. The guilt is your burden to carry,  not his. Now he needs to step up as a man, not lay a hand on you and you booth need to work toward reconnecting. 

Sometimes you need to tear things down to build something better. 

Sunday, January 17, 2016 6:28 AM

Wtf. That was a moment where your husband was down. It was your job to help him since u guys were in a relationship. Tell him or else youll get eaten from the inside from how you were slutting around. Imagine ur husband dping yhid to u. How would you feel. Exactly...


Monday, February 15, 2016 12:44 AM

Your husband has hit you. You should feel no guilt. He's abusive. You should get out. 

Thursday, March 3, 2016 2:31 PM

Honestly don't tell his sorry ass a damn thing I've been cheating sneaking out to our neighbors since October ZERO guilt call me a slut whore etc I get and give what he and I need by morning im the good wife it all balances out #monogomyisdead :)5

Monday, March 14, 2016 2:58 PM

What a bunch of judgemental fucking assholes! SAY NOTHING! Let it be your fond memory. Let it be the smile on your face your husband doesn't understand. You did nothing wrong, he wasn't doing his job! Women are not belongings to be used at will by a man. Stay strong, and if you're still unfulfilled, go to it again! Right on Sister!

Tuesday, May 3, 2016 10:15 PM

U fucking cum slut...ur a whore...


Saturday, May 21, 2016 7:43 PM

First you should turn your husband into the police for abusing you. Hopefully he spends the rest of his life in jail.

Second, it's your body, not his. You can do what you want. If he doesn't like, that's his problem. He doesn't own you.

Saturday, June 11, 2016 11:21 AM
Guest bitches condone what this woman did but if it were a guy saying he was emotionally unattached and had a nagging abusive wife you would all tell him that he was a jerk for cheating.  How he should tell his wife because "she has a right to know" and that her bitchiness was partly his fault. That he should let her divorve him and take half of his stuff along with alimony. Hipacritcal. .. Always a double standard and you know what? If I cheat I will never tell my wife because feeling guilty is much better then getting caught

Saturday, June 25, 2016 1:03 AM

 if I was u I'll keep my mouth shut and enjoy life,shit I'll do it again then I'll fall back from the guy next door it's OK to have fun just don't involve filling 

Wednesday, June 29, 2016 9:08 AM

 My story is a little different, but i need some advices. My married neighbor took advantage of me. It started as normal as can be. We both live in the same building. I live in the building for 39 years and he 23 years. We never spoken to each other until 4 years ago. I was telling a joke to my other neighbors and there he was laughing. I introduced myself and we hang out some time. I didnt see it as a problem because i kind know his wife and i went to high school with his sis-in-law. I have no idea what he has in mind until it happened. He assasulted me. When it was over i was shocked and at that moment i could walk away and take it as misunderstanding. All i wanted from him is a blood test..he would not take the test. For the next 20 months i learned alot from him. He is a chronic liar and a cheater. He sleeps with many women and have oral sex with them. I didnt know whether that the true until on Dec 18 he came to my home and threaten me. At that moment i started talking to my other neighbors which they told me its been going on for years he cheats on his wife. In the end he made me one of his many women he slept with...On Feb 21 i told his wife. She calls me a liar and everything in the book. 7 weeks later a police called and said they wanted to (talk) to me. 2 question later i was arrested for aggravant hassasment which later was dismissed. U see, 2 months ago i sent him a letter, he thought he use that to press charges against me but it backfirse. He was force to tell his wife and the police he cheats thoughout the marriage afffairs, one night stand and what he did to the end i have the last words...Do i regret telling his wife...NO!!! First, i wanted to put him and every man like him in his place. Second i wanted to hurt him and if it means going through his wife, i will....i have to think of myself...To think half of my neighbors knew his cheating ways....i wish i knew...His wife still with him. She knows his cheating ways but i dont think she knows abouut a woman named Cecilia, whom her husband is taking care of for the past 9 years..i wish could tell his wife...but the wife need to figure that out herself but then again the wife been married to this dog for 17 years but together 23 year. If she cant figure that out before, she will never.....i always wonder what makes a wife stay with a cheating husband...million question. They dont have children....nothing. Thanks for listening everyone...

Sunday, July 17, 2016 5:03 AM

 Filthy  slut , how would you feel if   he was the 1 that did that to you ?  You need to be stoned  to death ... 


Thursday, July 21, 2016 2:35 AM

An interesting tale.  If things were truly bad in your relationship, to include physical abuse, why did you not consider leaving your husband to get yourself and your child out of that situation?  Instead, you incorporate an entirely new problem into the relationship.  One that you own 100% since he has no knowledge of it.  The loss of a job is a very stressful situation for a man, especially when he has a family to support.  Did you every stop to consider that the time he was spending on the phone was to pursue job leads?  He did get himself another job, didn't he?  I in no way condone his conduct of being physically abusive, but if you found his conduct was offensive or dangerous,  you should have gotten yourself and your son away from the situation.  You could have then addressed the situation through counseling if you truly wanted to stay with you husband, or through legal channels if you wanted to leave.  Instead, your answer was to have a fling with your neighbor.  You say you feel guilty now, but for folk like you that will pass in time.  You will choose to live a lie and feel like you have gotten away with something, but where fidelity is concerned your husband will always have the moral high ground.

Sunday, July 31, 2016 7:09 AM

I sat in amazement across the table just staring at this lady I had just met face to face do the first time in our 9 month working only relationship. We were strategizing for a very important business presentation the next day in Seattle. She asked me a few seemingly non plus questions about my wife and our marriage.  Then after a bite of food very calmly told me.  

" your wife is having an affair.  For sure emotional but I would believe very sexual "

what at I said.  How the hell can you tell me this?  She proceeded to explain her background and knowledge of both sides of the affair psychology.  In sorry. But you've lost her to someone.  All the stresses of your job loss and the hardships you've been going through she just needed someone who made her feel good feel sexy feel hopeful.   

I say dumbfounded.  No damn way.  

Ok have you asked her if somethings going on ? Yes 

she got all defensive not crying but Since has she tried to reach out to you for sex and love?  No.  Actually I feel like I'm a chore.  

Well because you probably are.  And so is hiding it from your kids.   What changes have you noticed.   

Shes lost  weight looks really great. Dresses nicer, wears perfume, always tired and stepping by 10pm.,  comes home 30 min late or so each night after work and wants to shower.  

Have you tried to engage he as she walks in? Yes.  And ? She gets upset. " I need to unwind I need some space ". 

Buddy she is having an affair.  I'm sorry.  Do you plan massages and things ? Yes I love to massage her , be her groomer.  But lately even after grooming she says thanks and rolls away to do other things. No affection.  I think she sneaks out in the middle of the night.   But when I caught her last time she said she was taking the garbage out we had forgotten and told me I was crazy and paranoid.  It's those times that make me crazy.  You don't trust me.  

Can can we talk? No we have nothing to discuss. Oh ok so if I want to feel more clear on us that's nothing? No but it's dumb. There is nothing.  I've tried over and over.  She isn't interested.  It's like m a cook  and a janitor and a pounding board for mean thoughts.  I'm a roommate.   If I didn't have two kids I'd leave.  

Im losing my mind. Any thoughts I appreciate. 

Thursday, August 18, 2016 9:37 AM

Be quiet and don't suck no more dick but your husband. 

If he has already shown signs of a strong pimp hand by smacking you,he may beat your ass to death if you tell him. 

Leave if you ain't happy. I have never hit a  woman for leaving but damn sure would smack them in their dick sucker if they cheated down on their fuckin knees for some guy. 

Monday, September 19, 2016 2:32 PM

... cheating whore. And girls wonder why guys are such man whores, they do this shit to you. Die in a hole you hoe

Tuesday, December 27, 2016 8:18 PM

So what happened between the original poster and her husband? did she tell him? or not? if so then how did things go?

Monday, January 9, 2017 1:09 AM
Judge Dredd

I fucking hate people like you go die

Friday, January 13, 2017 10:09 PM

Jeez, where should I start? Have you and your husband ever had a conversation about a quasi-open, semi-open or open relationship where you both get to have other lovers? Has he ever expressed that to you? There's so many variations to this it's not funny. I'm now an older single male, but I've had a variety of monogamus and open or quasi-open relationships. I've known others who are totally committed to each other, and the husband brings home other guys for her and she brings home other girls for him. It's something you should think about, that way when this does happen again, and it will eventually, you may be free to do it and enjoy it. On the other hand, he and you may have never talked about it, which is unusual in today's day and age. Sometimes it can save a marriage, sometimes, depending on each partner, it can destroy it and more women have crossed lines or helped to destroy their marriages or relationships now than ever. If I'm with a woman, and I'm choosing to be with her alone, it would offend me greatly with what you've done, and I would probably tell you to go or I'd not talk to you or bother with you for days at the very least because I'd never be able to trust YOU again as you've broken that trust much like I've learned I can't even trust The God of creation Who is a total bastard from everything I've seen, heard and read, including shit like this with people like you. Doesn't matter that you're a woman, because I feel the same way about the men. But, you're only human, so is your neighbor. I can forgive that eventually, but it would always be in the back of my mind and sometimes at the forefront, depending on how you were acting. I can't love someone who I can't trust, which is why I can't even love Jesus or God, they've ruined my trust in Them. I cuss them out each and every day, and I'd have done the same to you. If I ever forgave you, it would be days if not weeks. I'd say that you shouldn't tell your husband for now, but keep in mind that 70-75% of you women have affairs, 85% of us men do. If I'm committed to someone, then I'm committed to someone, no matter how good the other woman looks, no matter if we're attracted to each other, etc. Sure, there's many women and girls that I'd love to eat their pussies and do much more with and make them feel wonderful as I do my best with every women to make her cum time and time again and make her feel good with me. I've brought home guys for my girlfriends and ex-wife (She had slept with over 300 men in the time we were together and at least another 400 before we got together and the last I knew another 200+ since we've been apart and it was never dick size, I'm 6.5 inches, she had white, black, jewish, latino, arab, asian and other guys anywhere from 3.5 or 4 inches on up to eight to 12 inches. She never was truly impressed by dick size like some women are and liked many of them to have come back for seconds (After she tried her first dp and first gangbang, it became a two to five times a week thing for either for about a two months before she finally cooled off a bit and was satisfied) and she was with me the whole time, though I'd sometimes send her off with some guys I felt I could trust [she didn't make good decisions in her life before, during and since our parting and it was her to divorce me, was raped four times in her life and put herself in the position to be raped more than once, and got raped the last three times by doing just that and was lucky to get away with her life the last two.] as I didn't want her to get hurt or abused [Many have some roughness from time to time, pulling of hair, slapping of the face, etc.) but when I gave her choices it was always a couple of her ex boyfriends she'd request more than a gangbang or strange guy and the guy she like the most only had 4.5 inches [You guys out there need to understand that you have to find the right women that the size of your dick doesn't matter and quite frankly, with every women I've ever been with, my female friends, my friend's wives, classmates, etc., as long as a guy has enough, about four inches or better, if he knows what he's doing with it, that's what is going to matter the most, plus his devotion, whether he just holds her, eats her pussy well and everything else, he spends time with her, stays clean, etc.] and was always thrilled to see him more than most of anyone unless one of the strange guys just really floated her boat. I know it's a lot of extra, but it's things you should consider for your lives. If you're committed to him, don't ever do it again, don't tell him, etc. Somewhere along the way, he might figure that something has happened with you and another guy at some point, but I'd say that you shouldn't even worry about that. I know YOU say and think you're not a slut, but that was a slut that night doing that. The thing is, being a slut for your husband versus being a slut on your own like you were is two different things. I like a woman who knows she's been or is a slut as they make some great wives and girlfriends if they're truly a loving girl on top of it all, because their focus of attention will be on me or the man OR men she's with. You were and are a slut for that one moment, but so what, it's water under the bridge. Forgive yourself, as I forgive you, just never do it again. Today, I'd be more apt to forgive you or I'd sit down with you and have a good talk with you once I calmed down an I'd have to get away from you first before the anger would get the best of me and no one want to experience that, especially a woman. Women like to take advantage of men today, and do so frequently, don't be one of them either. Their day is coming where it's going to get the best of them like the many who've already paid via beatings, death, stabbings, being burned alive, cut into pieces, etc. People get what they deserve, just like the thug on the street or the thug cops (not enough for them yet, but that day is coming soon, and now the average cop is actually in fear of his life because of the recent cop shootings, and it's something I hate to say that they too deserve; not that I'm advocating death to the police like #BlackLivesMatters or the New Black Panther Party [keep in mind that both want anyone other that someone who's black to be subservient to them or for more killings, rapings, beating, torture, murder, stabbings, shootings, of white girls, women, families, children, elderly, men and boys to continue and to increase and they call for it frequently], but for what they as a whole have done in the last 20+ years of my life against blacks, minorities, the poor and homeless, they do deserve what's been happening and I hope that they too wake up. Don't be surprised if one day your husband cheats on you, because karma does come full circle, and you've initiated it like many women do. That is why I go into a relationship with the girl/woman and I knowing what our parameters are and as we spend more time together, where it is and where it's going. I talk with women more than most men do, just like I write more her than most. Just things I had to say, and I may come back and add more. I'm not really finished because there's plenty to say. I mean at first my reaction would be to stay the fuck away from me, get the fuck out of the house if you told me that, and that's how you and most women would be as well. It wouldn't be you sleeping on the couch most likely, or I'd say sleep on the floor in our bedroom if I could remain calm. God, that would just piss me off, because there's lines and I don't like it when the lines are crossed like most don't. Don't tell him, not for now. Maybe one day, if you truly love him and he loves you, you can ask him first if he's ever done anything like that. If his answer is yes, I'd advise you not to be angry like some women get or thinking that you're better in some way, because you're not. It's kinda like the white women who only date black, latino, arab or indian men, once they've been with them, most none of us white guys are gonna want you back. And even though I've brought home guys of various races, sizes, body types, etc., for my ex or ex-girlfriends, it's one thing to have a variety and another to be nothing but a black cock whore, or a latino cock whore, or an arab cock whore, etc., and some women have the desires to be that and the slut they are, only a few don't. You are what you are when you do that shit, but if it's agreed upon by the husband and wife or the boyfriend and girlfriend, then she IS the slut and whore she is, but for them, it will be a beautiful thing, especially the husband or boyfriend who participates and uses her like the rest. I could never have a woman like some of the guys out there who's wives let other men fuck them but not the husband. That would be the end of her life or at the very least the end of our relationship. The have been women who've serviced or enjoy the sex in those gangbangs I speak of, and only one tried to do that, but I grabbed her by her hair and told the others to hold up for a second and shoved my dick in her mouth and told her, "I like when you're a slut, I don't mind sharing, but you will never push me to the side when I'm wanting mine!" I'm not a simple dick sucking cuck like so many out there are, and I won't tolerate being secondary or tertiary or not getting any more of it ever like some in a sexless marriage. I'm glad there's not that many people in that type of relationship, because for the the wife or the husband to do as they wish while their partner has nothing, is not a good thing. It's how some rapes and even murders take place, and we don't need more rapes of women or girls as it's better to live like a Muslim man, a Mormon or like Solomon and have as many women as a man wants or as many men as a woman wants. I've known quite a few couples that chose to do it, but not everyone is truly emotionally capable of sharing their spouse, and some have done it for 10 to 25+ years and they're still going strong and wouldn't give each other up for nothing. I mean, if you've got a man that lets you have sex with, sleep with other guys and you've got a wife that brings home another woman for you or you and her both, what's wrong with that if you're both enjoying life so much or for those you've included. It's something beautiful and unique for those who have that, just like the couples who are monogamus to one another, and I'm sorry, even though it's only once so far, it's not monogamus any longer. You SHOULD feel guilty, and you are and should have been depressed because it makes you less of a woman, less of a wife, less of a human being when you cheat. I TRULY hope you never do it again, and I truly mean that I hope you and he have the most loving and best relationship out there, but you are and have been wrong, and it's something you're going to live with for the rest of your life. One day, a good moment will come and ask him if he truly loves you day after day. If he just says that "You know I love you!" rather than saying "Of course I love you fool/idiot!" Then I still wouldn't talk to him about it. You've opened the door to something bad happening to either of you or for something to happen again on your part or his even, and it's up to you to shut it. If you believe in God, I'd be asking Him to forgive me. I believe in Him, but to me He's just a sorry bastard now. He's never answered my prayers for what I needed as well as wanted, and my time in this life is coming to an end and I can't trust Him at all any longer, much like I wouldn't be able to trust you for some time to come if you did that to me and told me about it. I wouldn't bother with you for days, wouldn't go home every day for supper, YOU'D sleep on the fucking floor or couch and sometimes I'd let you have the bed instead because I'd be mad for quite sometime. I'm not a person to be crossed, EVER! Once again, I do wish you the best. It's very hard for me to do, but I would look at you right now, tell you to look me in the eyes, pull you close to me, tell you I love you and I do forgive you as that's what you're wanting and needing, but don't EVER do it again, and give you a hug, a good long hug, and a kiss forhead and a kiss on the cheeks. I'd also probably flirt with you a bit in front of your hubby as I do in front of the rest of the girls and women's boyfriends or husbands. Flirting is nothing and is a good thing for everyone concerned, though many don't understand or know it. I'd rather that every guy in the room flirt with my girl, my female friends, friend's wives, etc., when they're with me, just like I do. You SHOUlD feel good and that is a good thing. Sometimes, it's good for you to have another woman do it with your husband a bit as well. You'll sow some good seeds that way and they'll come back to you good as well. You take care if I don't get back, and come back here so that we know how you're doing. I'll be concerned for you and him both.

Friday, January 13, 2017 10:11 PM

I am the previous Guest and my name did NOT post other than Guest. My name is Martin. Please let us know how it's going. I

Sunday, June 10, 2018 11:35 PM

tell him,if not it will eat you alive,the bed has been defiled,trust is over,man or woman,marriage is not for everyone,part as friends if possible,option is divorce unless he or she truly forgives,one time too many,the love has went out the door,accept it or not,most people face this when the gates are left open,get right or get left,im not condemming,we all know right from wrong when it comes to marriage,its sacred not a game

Saturday, July 14, 2018 1:34 AM

Yes.  You do not get to complain he hits you unless you do something about it.  You should have left him or had his dumbass arreseted for that alone, especially with a child in the house!  I am certain we all feel for those unemployed.  I have been there myself as I am sure others here as well.  I know I didn't beat my wife or girlfriend on either of those occassions.  It hurts...but you move on...always forward...dig ditches...get a damn job!  At least bring in $$.  I have done door-to-door selling knives, held two minimum wages at the same time to make ends...  So I'm calling BULL! 

You sucked some asshole stranger's dick blaming he complimented you?  You let him not only see you whole bare puss...but you also let him 'eat it'!  And all you other clowns in here?  "You say it was only once...I may not even believe that...however, once does not make you a SLUT!  It does, however make you A CHEATING FUCKING BITCH!  PERIOD!"  No turning back.  Go ahead and hide it like a coward.  That is actually what you and the other mindless minions here tell you...COWARD.  You DID it...You FACE it.

Thursday, June 24, 2021 1:36 AM
You really deserve better. Find a man that puts you first
Sunday, January 9, 2022 10:15 AM
No don’t feel guilty, he’s probably already been cheating on you that’s why he treats you the way he does. No need to tell him and keep having fun with your neighbor. At least you are getting satisfied
Monday, January 24, 2022 4:53 AM
You’re just a cheating piece of trash trying to get sympathy just because you’re a woman. You belong to the streets
Sunday, January 30, 2022 10:52 AM
tell him you POS whore wife. You don't deserve a faithfil husband you Jagoff and cheating motherfucker.There is nothing lower in life than a cheating whore wife. Always remember you POS the universal law of God you redap what you sow
Tuesday, February 8, 2022 3:09 AM
there is nothing lower in this world than a cheating whore wife
Wednesday, February 16, 2022 4:28 AM
myself i think your a lowlife POS motherfucker and i for one if i found out my wife did what you did i would set her on fire. your a betrayerPOS
Tuesday, June 7, 2022 1:54 PM
Male who has been cheated on
I noticed you spent about five times as many words/sentences about how your husband is not living up to your expectations, vs what you did. All that foundation you tried to lay is pointless. You made a promise to only be with your husband, for better or worse. Using your logic, if you got cancer and could not take care of him, he should be OK cheating on you. If you are really unhappy, then you should have gotten a divorce before you decided to blow someone. There is NO excuse for cheating. Tell him, ask for forgiveness, allow him to track where you go and if you are extremely lucky, you might have a chance he won't divorce you.
Sunday, July 10, 2022 4:11 PM
Whatever you did is on you. Your talking about what hubs was doing is something you need to consider. Ask yourself- Is he recovered from his funk? Is it likely to happen again? Is that something you can work out in counseling? Not saying you or he are weak, but weakness happens. How much do you want to stay married to hubby? Whatever you decide, work on that. Give it all you got. If I had gone as far as you- I would have divorced him.
Saturday, July 30, 2022 5:30 AM
Bernard walker
Hello , my name is Benard walker.... A friend of mine lied to my wife that I was cheating on her and this made her filed for divorce without even giving me a chance to explain and everything went up. The thought of losing my family got my heart broken so i prayed for a solution and a way i can be able to bring back my wife and kids and prove to her all these things she heard about me and the other lady working in my office are all lies because deep down in my heart i knew i never and will never cheat on my wife. To cut this whole story short my wife sister from the USA heard all the issues on ground and immediately asked me to contact DR SAM she gave me his contacts details and i did as she said and DR SAM told me everything will be fine in two days in two days my wife will come home for good again and this was exactly what happened and for this reason i say this man is real and can also help anyone with any of the below problem: BRINGING BACK LOST LOVER. RESTORATION OF BROKEN MARRIAGES / RELATIONSHIPS. HEALING OF DISEASES. PRAYERS OVERCOME SPIRITUAL ATTACKS OR BAD DREAMS. CURE FOR HSV 1 AND HSV 2. TOTAL CURE FOR INFECTION STD ETC. A WEAK ERECTION TREATMENT AND CURE FOR HIV IS GUARANTEED. PRAYERS FOR LUCKY NUMBERS FOR LOTTO WINNING. ETC.................. email: [email protected] call/ text/ whatsapp ; +2349133200695 Thank you.

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