So Confused

I cheated on my boyfriend

Friday, March 10, 2017 6:42 PM by Carla Rating: +2|-6

I am in a relationship for more than 2 years now. He is a gentle guy but he is obsessed with things. Like he is overly possesive. It is because I had an affair with a guy in the beginning of our relationship and he made me pay for this really bad. Now I gotta put up with the endless insecurities and questions. What confuses me that, before him I had my first boyfriend and we were deeply in love. He was everything that I wanted until I figured out that he was keeping a girl aside. Eventhough he apologized million times, I was so proud I didnt forgive him, I left him instead.

I dont know if I have done wrong or right. Because I miss him sometimes. We used to have so much fun together. Recently he has a new gf and I saw their picture at the places we used to hang out before. It hurt me to see this and I even cried and felt so bad which I shouldnt have. My current bf loves me so much, treats me nicely besides his possesive nature. I tried to break up since I was having confusions. He doesnt want to leave me. I was thinking maybe I needed this time to myself so that I can be with someone who I can be happy with like I was with my ex. then I also think my bf loves me so much and maybe I would be regretful if I leave him. So confusing...

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Sunday, March 12, 2017 8:52 AM

ALF

You're confused because you have rocks in your head. You quit one boyfriend because he was cheating on you. You enter another relationship and the first thing you do is cheat on him. And you wonder why he's insecure about your relationship? If you want out of your current situation I suggest you just end it. I also suggest you do some growing up before you get into another relationship.

Monday, March 13, 2017 8:47 AM

Guest

Were u two sexting or sending nudesto each other. That's howMyMan caught me

Monday, March 13, 2017 4:12 PM

Carla

Alf, I do not wonder why he's insecure. I wonder why cant he heal after 2 years? I mean I really did everything to make it up to him and put up with everything including physical & emotional abuse. I tried to end it but he doesnt agree. He doesnt trust me, yet he wants to keep me. What am I supposed to do out of this. Dont worry lesson's learnt and for your knowledge, grown ups cheat more than young adults. Still agreeing with learning from the experiences before moving on.

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