What I'm doing is not cheating . The definition is different but I had been betrayed . See, we born in this world , we learn to trust and and commit to things in live . Our career , health , relation and other things . I am man who gave the trust, love , attention, material , a child , communication and all other components to make a woman happy . But what if that person next to you Is not putting the same effort , and what if that person cheated on you when you thought , ok that's the real , we are committed , settled and let's build our lives together . The truth always comes out. So what's definition of cheating , is a breach of agreements , feelings and disloayty . So I was cheated on it and she doesn't know I know . All it takes is putting pieces together and the truth comes out . Is past , yes it is . Will a liar confess , no will not . So instead of suffer loss why not give the same treatment . Why not give eye per eye . If I were the nice guy and she didn't valorozed , I can be what she wants me to be and I will and the sad about is some people only valorize what they have when they learn they losted . A cheater will never regret from what's is done but never expects to be victim of cheating