Thursday, April 7, 2016 2:10 AM by Guest
Siting in the hotal room with my two children(8 & 6) and dont know what my next move is going to be.
So i have been married for 10 years to my wife, she is a house wife and has never worked (formaly) a day in her life. I own my own business so we could afford to live off my income but the past 5 years have been the worst financially, business has gone down by more than 60% i am litterally paying salaries from my own savings account i have even been working part time just so that we can keep our head above water.
So in January my wife asked me if she could go out with some friends (one of which i employ(layla) at night since i had an off day from my part time job and could put the kids to bed, so i naturally agreed i even gave her extra money just so she could have a nice time. So in the morning after realizing that she didnt come home i decided to shot her a message to ask if she was ok and she replys me telling me she slept at a friends house and would be back befor the kids came home so jokingly i was like okay 'did u get lucky lol' and her responce was 'yes lol' with a tongue out face thing so it was a joke kind of thing so to follow with the theme of the joke i decided to ask my employee layla my wifes friend if there was something she wanted to tell me and i had a dead serious face on and supprisingly she immidiatly tells me she was sorry and all and then proceeds to tell me what happened.
So layla tells me that some guy they meet a random stranger who started flirting with my wife and befor they knew it my wife had left with him. Naturally i was upset so i decided to ask my wife a week later (wanted to se if she would come clean) about the whole incident she then tells me that it was nothing and that they did nothing and all so i left that subject alone. A few weeks ago my wife comes clean tells me she drove him to a hotal and they had sex, she then tells me she is pregnant and since we havent had sex in 4 months that its probably his. Now what would you do if u were in my shoes??.
So i decided to be decent and calm about it i asked her if she could call and arrange a meeting with the guy and tell him so she invited him to our house because i dont have the money to look after another child let alone a child from another man and see if they could work something out. So the guy comes to our house and tells me tht i must pay for the child and that he wants to be part of the childs life but not financially like this child is going to pay for itself. So anyway told him that after the paternity test we will see what would be the best way forway and he agreed.
I then decided to get a private investigator to find out more about him and what i found would shock you. This idiot has a serious criminal record everything fom thieft, armed robbery,assult, possession of drugs, and even a rape charge that ended up being droped. He doesnt work and is a 38 year old that still stays with his mom doesnt even own a proper car. How am i supposed to let this asshole come into my house an sit with my children, i dont want to put there lives in danger and i dont want a divorce either for the sake of the children.Im in such a dilimar, My wife comes from a poor family so kickng her out wont work she will probably end up homeles + i dont want to take our children away from her, cant afford to have another child so she needs to make a plan to provde for her child and dont want a thief and druggy in my house and around my kids.
If only they was a way....She really fucked up the perfect life.