Sounds like "Rob" needs to be reminded why it should be a no-no to mess with a married woman,,,, because that woman husband will beet some a$$.  I'd take him down a peg or two first if possible.  If physical violence isn't your thing a couple slashed tires is always a pain in the butt to deal with.  

As for your wife,,,,, tough call my friend.  People are flawed. We make mistakes.  Maybe she's being honest and this was a one and done deal,,,, but what concerns me about your story is her acknowledging the thrill of cheating.  If cheating is like a drug and she's now addicted to this feeling you could have a real problem on your hands.  I say let time be the judge.  You didn't kick her to the curb after hearing her confession and she was up front and honest with you without you having to become a private eye so again maybe everything will be ok.

Your wife goes off to an event by herself, ends up shagging "Rob" without the benefit of alcohol, and her story is she couldn't resist his looks and charm?!?  If that's the case, she's going to be dropping panties at any other events she attends alone where good looking charmers will be present.  The plain fact that good looks and charm overrode her love for you shows that she has little respect for you and your marriage.  She has a character flaw that will manifest itself in such sitiuations, and will eventually prove destructive to your marriage.  I'm not going to say kick her to the curb, but I do recommend that you tread lightly until she earns trust back.  The only reason she told you anything at all was because she thought others had seen her, and that they would tell you.  Not because she felt and guilt or remorse.  I would also suggest that you tell her she needs to seek individual counseling to find out what misfire took place to make her do this in the first place.  And no more going alone to events.  Best of luck to you dude.

Just wondering about her encounter with Rob (Not his real name), do you know if he gave your wife a CreamPie?

She cheated on you, she needs to go.

You are a beta male sapling. Get out of here with your vile open marriage garbage. I'm sure while the author is a beta, he isn't beta enough to stoop that low. People like you are disgusting beings with a lack of morals and sense. I hope you suffer true carnage by your spouse or whoever your with. May despair come your way deuce.

well thisis a tough one it was only once but she enjoyed it so much that can lead to more times if I where you I would remove him from the picture and have him fired so I would not leave her but make sure he gets fired because it sound like he will not stop trying to bed your wife our other wifes he must go for the sake of your home and family there just conguest for him he will continue and succeed thats what guys like him do

Can't believe that you are allowing this like it's acceptable. Also, how has nobody kicked this Rob guy's ass yet? Who would put up with a kid banging married women in a company and the wives of the men? You guys are a bunch of pussies.

S if she can fuck a couch bag disease exposed naccistist asshole then t bar bar pretty da low to preven her fro hav an affair.

But mos importantly , all you idiots (I think one) settling and wasting your life with someo who can't possible be 'in love' with you so so f'ing sad. Dying at 80 a she's going 'thank God that's over'

Would you steal from your child? Would you screw your adult child's friend? Why not?

Because you love them and because you love them you would never hurt them, the thought is crazy to cheat your kids.

That's love.

She cheated or he, you were never meant to be together.

Marriage is work when two non soulmate are together and at death, with nothing left (sorry my little mammals friends, there was no creator to go home to).

Nope, you wasted your life. And so did she.

My ex cheated and 5 years later after oldest graduated I left her just about everything and so much happier. My cabin with worth one tenth our old house and I couldn't be happier with my soulmate. Cheat on her?? I would rather die. And being a divorced, fit well respected leader, I have had women 20 years younger, successful and considered gorgeous and yet I think of my soulmate eyes and don't notice her 50 year old breasts or the laugh lines around her eyes. Love making is about pleasing each other and not caring if we orgasm.

Please never settle. Don't screw yourself financially but realize that person who cheated will feel about as badly about your death as a close coworker will and any extra tears will be for the fear of the unknown future without you, not because they lost there soulmate.

Guaranteed they will be in a relationship in less than six months unless ove

I would advice you to leave her.