Ok so I have been reading some stories and thought I share mind so it can help others. 

  So 6 years ago ( 2009 ) I (26 yo) met a beautiful  woman (24yo) who I very much fell in love with. Two years later we got married and I did everything  a man needed to do for his women. House, car, vacation and even the helping around the house and paying her the attention women are so desperate for. I wasn't  rich but I make ok money (53,000 yearly). She didn't  work and we didn't  have children  so she spent it all day laying around the house. I was ok with that I just wanted her to be happy. Please note I'm a good looking guy and I keep in shape. Always have and always will. I am a execresize freak. Well at least that's what my friends  call me. Sorry off topic. Anyways  two years into our marriage she started being distant for no  reason. I tried taking to her and even asked to go to counseling  with me. She wouldn't  tell me what was wrong and didn't want to try fixing our marriage. One night after a whole day of me taking her out shopping (spent over 400 on her) we were in bed and I tried to initiate sex. She pushed me away and said ewwww. I can't believe that those words would hurt so much that in an instant  I fell out of love. I'm not gonna lie I cried. I'm 5'10  230 lbs of pure muscle and a 5'2 120 lbs women made me cried like never before. OK I cried like a bitch fuck you if you judge me. the next day I spoke with a friend of mine who was a computer nerd and he helped get into her email, Facebook and I could even see from my computer  everything  she was doing on hers. I got all the info I needed. She was cheating  with a sports bar owner who was 48 years old and was 5'6 overweight white guy. I couldn't  understand untill I digged further and found out he had  money. He also was married and the money was hers not his.  I kept  cool, ok it's a lie my friend did all the thinking for me and kept me cool. I drove up to her house one day and introduced myself  and we had a long talk. This women was furious. He had done this to her before. That same night I  got home she asked where I was at all night. My response  was since "when the fuck you care" and just walked away from her. She was shocked because I never was disrespectful  to her. She walked behind towards the room yelling why am I being such an ass hole. I said to her "leave me the fuck alone" but bitches like to push the wrong buttons. I had little  to no respect for her and my mind  was just playing back the night she said ewww. We got into an argument and She threw a cup of water at me. That's when she knew she fucked up. I did something that I would never have  thought I would  of done to a women. I jumped over the bed gripped her by the neck and literally  lifted her up. Her eyes were in shock and you could see the fear in her eyes. That's when I noticed what I was doing and let go of her. I said to my self I'm going to jail. She began crying saying you promise  you would never touch me. I responded saying " And you promise you would always be faithful.  She then realized  I knew but wasn't  aware  of how much. She quietly  grabbed her things and left. Year later we were divorced and she was living with the bar owner who then left her to go back to his rich wife two months  after it was finalized. The house was sold and we both took half. It wasn't  much because we only had the house for  5 years. We split a little  over 13,000 and I took my half and used as a down payment for my new home. She got no alimony because we were only married for 3 years and seperated 9 months during the 3 years.  I also had proof of her indiscretions...

Fast forward  to now, 2016. 

    I ran into one of  her friends  while in the mall and she told me my ex was searching  all over for me. I told her I didn't  care and that chapter  of  my  life  is over. She told me the sappy story That my ex was really sorry for what she did and couldn't stop crying  over it. She was on depression  medication  and blah blah blah. I tuned out to be honest. I don't  why but I agree to meet up with my ex over dinner. When I saw her it was  strange. She didn't  change a bit but I didn't  find her as attractive  as I once did. Don't  know how to explain  it. She is a gorgeous  girl. She apologizes  and was very honest for once with me.  I asked why. I was good to her and help her out. I know it wasn't  because of sex. Was it just for the money. She had her head down the whole time with tears. She said yes. I feel like such a whore. I wanted nicer things. I was very materialistic  but I have change. I'm not going to lie I really  did feel bad for her but I was over it. She remembered  that I changed with her from one day to another. The look I gave her was different  and she asked when was the moment I stop loving her. And how was I able to fall out of love so quickly. I told her  it was the night she made the ewww remark. In the middle of the restaurant  she began crying like a baby. She was loud and people  were looking. We payed the bill  and walked out to finish the conversation. She said she was sorry and she never at any time found me discusting she was just trying to emotionally detach her self from me. Either way it didn't  matter no more. I couldn't  believe a word and I was done. I told her I forgave her and hoped she would find someone that would make her happy. She was expecting  for us to work it out again but  the whole entire time I was with her I was glad I wasn't  with her. 

That's my story. I learn  alot talking to people who cheat  and reading some the post here. Cheaters are selfish and only worry about thier own desire and happiness. They find any excuse to  justify  what they did but if they were that unhappy they would of left. It's easy to spot one. They always judge you according  to their  own conditions. If your spouse  always want to know where your at and wants to go through  your  facebook, Internet  history  or cell phone trust me they are up to no good. To all the cheaters reading this fuck you and die.