This story starts a year and a half ago. My wife and I got pregnant with a child and after 11 weeks of pregnancy she miscarried. This was obviously a very sad time in our lives but we both took different positions on this tragedy. I decided to take a position of faith and believe that while it was ok to mourn the loss of our child that we shouldn't let this experience destroy us. She began a self destruct phase and started meeting up with an ex boyfriend behind my back. On New Years Eve she told me that she met up with the ex boyfriend and that they kissed each other. I was angry and we seperated for a few days until I decided it wasn't sex so I would take her back. The next year and a half was filled with great memories and loving experiences and we were right on the edge of buying a home, trying to get pregnant and just about to start my carrer in aviation, but I soon found out that although I was faithful and happy during this time that my wife was living a huge lie. Two months ago out of nowhere my wife told me she didn't know if she could stay married to me anymore and seperated from me. For the next three weeks I had no idea why she felt that way. One day my father got a message on facebook from a random man saying he wanted to confess about a few things. This man confessed to having an affair with my wife for the last year and a half. I confronted her with the information and she admitted to it and to another man as well. A few days after that she admitted that the new years eve incident was also sex and not just kissing. My wife has slept with three different men multiple times, flew one of them to a hotel in Arizona costing $650 and he only flew in for 13 hours so they could have sex, told me she was going to a church retreat for a weekend but ended up staying a weekend in a hotel with one of them and the entire time she was cheating on me tried to get pregnant with my baby (luckily we never got pregnant again). She now realizes just how stupid she has been and is trying to win me back because I am a billion times better than any of these dirt bags but I won't allow myself to be abused and manipulated like this anymore. I have filed for divorce and hope to find a women who will respect me enough to not sleep around behind my back. Heaven knows I need a faithful wife once I become a career pilot and will be gone for days at a time.